How can I feel better about myself, I have many problems?

Right.. Im very sorry about the essay im about to write.. if you get bored of reading it all, im very sorry. here goes:

right, I need help. I dont think im pretty at all, I have a boyfriend (and I know what you are thinking.. ‘Your boyfriend must think your pretty’) and he does, but I dont think I am, you know them days where your make up never goes right, your hair always looks messy and you cant find anything to wear.. well I have them days everyday, I have freckles on my cheeks, and no amount of foundation covers them enough to satisfy me! I have a cows lick in my hair so my hair is always the same and I find it hard to style it differently! I dont have the most fashionable clothes, but cant find anyway of earning money to buy new ones.

Yes I know I sound like a moany person.. but if you could just give me tips, it would make me a lot happier, thankyou x

Answer #1

thank you mskittyg23, I used to have my nose periced but it closed up :/

thankyou for the advice, it has really helped :)

Answer #2

OKAY well im to lazy to read the other people’s answers so here is what my thoughts & tips are:

WELL I am going through the same thing! My boyfriend always says im beautifull and thats 1 step closer to you feeling better about urself. you have a person who adores you and thinks your beautifull, and he must really like you. Feel good that you have someone who constantly would remind you that you are beautifull. we’re all beautifull.

freckles are great. I wish I had freckles, you know a lot of people think freckles are bad well I think its darn cute! ^_^ Feel good about yourself, dont slouch, take vitamins, eat healthy, drink a lot of water. Mix & match clothes, add a little flair, make your own, and look pretty, stand out! Your hair, you can curl it and scrunch it. the key is hair spray!!! haha it will always keep your hair in place.

There are many store ALLL over the world that are cheap and have amazing clothes. just save like $10 at least and try to find them. buy clothes that match your personality, and make you feel pretty. try them on, if you feel brighter already, BUY IT!

think of it this way, your lucky to be alive. You seeem to be around a teenager right? even if your not, we all have this un-comfy stage in our lives were we think we’re not good enough. Well we are, you have a boyfriend that thinks your pretty, and try your best to feel pretty. play some happy dance music and try on some clothes. have fun!

Hope this helped. I wrote a lot too :D

Answer #3

This opinion is only if you are like fourteen or older: Two things - one- every girl feels that way! Ever see a girl who looks in the mirror and isn’t self-correcting to try and look better - b/c she thinks she’s perfect as is? I never have. We all feel like that, so don’t think you’re too weird or moany.

But - two - you need to realize that to feel good about yourself takes work. You need to decide that you want to look better - and think of how. If I told you that you had to earn $100 or something really bad would happen to you - you’d find a way to earn that money. It’s the same thing here - you need to realize that looking good is a priority for you - as it is for most girls, and that you are worth blowing a hundred dollars on yourself to do it. Get you hair done, nails done, fashionable clothes, a tattoo or a piercing if you are old enough.

Personally, I think being tastefully sexy is way more important than being pretty. I’m both, luckily, but I find I can’t ever really tell if I’m pretty - but I can always tell if I’m sexy - heads turn. :->

Answer #4

thankyou lizardbreathx3

yeahh I am 15, 16 in a couple of months…

I can never get enough money to buy clothes hehe, but its my birthday soon so hopefully I will get quite a bit of money x

Answer #5

I’m sort of like you, I have a boyfriend and he says I’m beautiful but I don’t believe it myself. I have freckles to and I used to want to cover them up like you do now, but I’ve learnt to love them, you’d be amazed how many people think that freckles are sexy and cute, don’t cover them up, show them off!

Answer #6

The One (God) who created beauty says you are beautiful. Next time you look in the mirror say to yourself, “Beyond what I see, lies a heart of gold and a strong mind. I am beautiful in truth.” Don’t allow yourself to think or say anything that could negate that, and decide that this is right reguardless of how you feel. Your feelings will catch up eventually.

Answer #7

CHILLAX LIVE your LIFE I BET your PRETTY! GD MADE US ALL DIFFERENT SO BE DIFFERENT BE WHO you R. BE WHO you WANNA BE. Hope this helps Iram


Answer #8

WOW! Be your self you act as if your reallly ugly I bet your not! By the way my friend has freckles and they look CUTE!

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