How to feel better about my self?

Well I need to know what to do to build up my self confidence and self esteem…peolpe always makes me feel badd because am tall am juss 5ft 7inches.they say that am over grown…they do like I am the tallest female ever…I hate that am tall but it cant change soo please help me find a way to deal with it…I am eve sometimes scared to wear high heels…help pls thank u

Answer #1

I don’t know how old you are (I didn’t look at your profile), but I was 5’ 7” tall in 5th grade, so I know how it is to feel out of place. For a while, I would hunch over to look shorter, but, after discussing my feelings with my tall mother, I began to see that I had a rare opportunity to really be an individual! So, I started standing up straight and looking forward instead of at the ground. Within about 2 months, all my classmates were complaining because they were so short!!! :) It’s not how tall (or short) you are, but whether you like yourself just the way you are. If you do, other people will always be attracted to you - I promise. PS: I am now 6’ tall and I still wear 3” heels when I go out with guys who are shorter than I am! They love it! :)

Answer #2

I’m 6ft and love the attention it brings me. The only people who have made comments about my being tall are short fatties who are jealous. Don’t let comments upset you. Start looking into what your height can bring you. As far as I’m concerned your not even that tall. The average female in America in 5’8”. Heels are popular for a reason, to make you tall like me, LOL:) Height has advantages too. Like being able to pack on a few extra pounds compared to a shorty. I weigh the same as my best friend but she’s a size 12 and I’m a size 4. Who do think looks better?

Answer #3

There is nothing bad about being tall…I m about 5ft 7 inches too! Just say thanks when they tell you that you are tall! Models have to be tall too! Relax.
hope I helped

Answer #4

Hey your lucky. I’m an absolute midget people always think I’m 10 when I’m actually basically 14. You should be proud your tall and flaunt it. My bezzie is really tall and she decided seeing as she was so tall she might do some modelling. It was great for herself confidence and people we didn’t even know where coming up to her and wanting to be her mate.

Answer #5

Hey, Being tall is great! im 14, and im 5’11, hehe :P everyone says im the tallest 14yr old they know, but I don’t mind :P I used to be self-consience about my height, but being tall to me is a great thing, and I love being tall. And I find, for a confidence builder, try horseback riding, im not kidding, it really helps, I love riding, and its very relaxing, but challenging at the same time, I know many people who take riding lessons to build up their confidence

Hope I helped :)

Answer #6

Hey, don’t listen to them, they’re probably just jealous! Instead of hating that you’re tall, take advantage of it-like you can see over people’s heads in a crowd, right? :) And you could try out for basketball or volleyball, your height would be an advantage there!

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