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divorced friends with benefits?

I got a problem. I’m seeing (not dating)someone recently divorced and he’s going through so many changes right now. We’ve been seeing eachother for 4 months so far. He says he’s not ready for a relationship and I can understand that. As for myself, this entire “friends with benefits” thing is driving me crazy. He’s so damn gorgeous and I’ve been living out my sexual fantasies with him. He says he doesn’t want to lead me on but he’s cooked for me, taken bubble baths with me and let’s me use his toothbrush. Funny how the little things gets us ladies all hot and bothered. How can I help him make the transition, still be a friend and yes, get sex from the guy at the same time? Is that even possible? Or is that too “relationshipy”?

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Yes, it is possible to remain just friends and time to time having sex. Just approach him but tell him that you want mainly maintain your friendship and only secondarily some sex bc you got hot.

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