I'm 16 years old.I have had sex with 3 guys.And they have been friends with Benefits.Well the first to I didn't really feel that wierd after ,but this is time it did.We have been friends for about 2 years now,and I never really saw my self having sex with him.We were to clse as friends.I haven't really talked to him since.And he wants this to be a regular baises kinda thing like I had with the other 2.What can I do to make me not feel wierd around him .???
You dont rate questions! I asked a logical question, and you totally ignored it!
Are you looking for a relationship with this guy, or is it just all about sex? Seems to me thats all he wants from you!When you are feeling weird around him, it means something, and you shouldnt just ignore it!
Evaluate your own motives, expectations and you should be able to talk honestly with your sexual partner.
*How do you feel about the relationship with your partner that you are in at the moment?
*What do you think might happen as a result of having sex? Do you really understand the potential consequences? The physical and emotional consequences?
*How do you think you will feel about your partner and more importantly, about yourself?
*Right now -- how do you feel about your partner? Do you trust, respect and love him? Are those feelings mutual?
*Do you feel pressured to have sex? Is there pressure from your partner, friends or any other reason?
*Do you feel that you and your partner can make a decision right now and does it feel comfortable to you?
*Can you talk openly to your partner about your decision?
Bad Reasons for sex too soon:
· A need for sex.
· You want the person to love you.
· Social pressure to perform.
· Nothing more to talk about.
· A curiosity to find out if there's any chemistry.
· You want to make someone else jealous.
· To persuade your partner to leave his or her current partner.
· You're challenging a dare.
· An attempt to solidify the relationship.
If you are having sex for all the WRONG reasons, maybe you need to reevaluate your life!
There is no such thing as friends with benefits. There are only friends who want the physical gratification of sex, but not mature enough to handle the emotional aspect of it. And if you aren't ready to settle down with one person and have children, then you aren't ready for sex. Slow down and enjoy your teen age years while they last, you have plenty of time to have sex when you're older.
YOU'RE 16 AND YOU'VE SLEPT WITH 3 GUYS,THAT DON'T SOUND RIGHT,SORRY I SAID THAT BUT COME ON SOONER OR LATER YOU WILL LIVE TO REGRET IT...MY GIRL YOU'LL HAVE TO QUIT THAT CAN OF LIFE STYLE AND TRY TO FIND THE RIGHT THING,LIKE WHAT 16 years OLD SUPPOSE TO DO,REGULAR THINGS LIKE GO TO MOVIES AND MAKE OUT ON THE FRONT POUCH,AND THEN LATER C WHATS REALLY OUT THERE...BYE
sex is when 2 people bond together and love each other...do you guys love each other
Can you answer one question? Do you just want it to be all about sex with him?