How can I convince my Mom to let me wear a bikini?

now before I tell you my question & stuff let me say this. I’m not bragging or trying to get attention or anything like that. The reason I’m saying this cause people have asked about this & the comments they get are… “your just trying broadcast your boobs & you are a slut…sso its natural to have big boobs…lol etc.” I do not need that I need real advice. So my mom is always on my case about what I wear cause she says my boobs & butt are big. she won’t let me wear a bikini,v neck, shorts or anything like that. It makes me feel bad :( :( I’ve tried loosing weight but they still stayed :( I wear a size 11 pants & bra size is 38 D I’m 14 also 5’6 (if you need more info to help answer my question just ask me )So do you think my boobs & butt are big? also how can I convince my mom to let me wear a bikini, shorts etc. Can I get them smaller without surgery? serious advice please!

Answer #1

musicismyeverything687- I’ll try finding some cute shorts that are knee length & put tank top under v necks Thanks so much for your help :)

Cherrylips- Thanks so much I’ll try your diet & see if my boobs get smaller :)

baz- I’ll try not to feel bad about it & I’ve already lost weight I guess I’ll have to loose a lil more. I’ll try wearing black Thanks so much :)

Answer #2

mention the only difference between the 2 is 4 like inches of belly showing, and guys want to see the other stuff that can be covered by a bikini just as a full suit covers!!

Answer #3

your mom is just concerned that it might be exposing and people could say things to hurt you there are so many different type of bikinis, and types of clothing that could flatter your figure


  1. cut your portions in half if you eat 4 slices of bread for lunch, have two
  2. eat slowly, chew your food well
  3. cut out all junk food and sweets and try to have as little sugar that you can possibly handle
  4. eat fruit (fibre is good for you) eat more veggies
  5. drink herbal tea like rooibos after you eat to aid digestion
  6. go walking everyday, start of from a short walk and increase your distance gradually
  7. drink lots of water!

you wont see results overnight but it will work if you stick to it

Answer #4

38D aha that’s pretty impressive for a 14 year old im not really all that surprised your mom is the way she is with you wearing bikinis etc she probably just doesn’t like the idea of guys looking at you in that way… and trust me they will lolz so you shouldn’t feel bad about it.

There isn’t really much you can do to make your boobs smaller except loose weight and that’s still not going to make much of a difference, try wearing black, makes your boobs look slightly smaller than what they are lol.

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