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im in love with a such smart boy.he is satanique(he dont bleive with god).I dont know what to do.we are deffrent.
If you are Christian.. it is extremely important... ...who your lifetime mate is.
This is one of the most serious things you will ever encounter, apart from salvation.
You see the heartache and destruction... that is all around you. If you are from the US, the divorce rate is 1 in 2. That is terrible. The pain is incredible... to those involved...It should stop.
Much prayer.. needs to go into the choice of a mate, and you need to know that you know... before you go forward.
And if you begin by violating scripture, well how could you ever make it right?
You would be saying, in essence... I am my own boss, I make my own choices, noone is going to tell me what to do, I bow my knee to no one. But, self.
that is self on the throne of your life... Not God.
You have the right to follow self...
Just know that is what it is, you can't have it both ways.
First off, if he doesn't believe in god that does not neccasarily mean he is part of the satanism religoin. That is a whole different belief system. He is an atheist. It shouldn't matter what religion each of you are in the end. Religion is a personal choice. My and my fiance do not have the same religious beliefs at all, we still make the relationship work and we plan on raising our child to be open minded and to believe whatever he wants to.
Satanism is not a religion specifically for people that do not believe in God. Does he have a faith at all?
However none of that is important. If you cannot accept him for who he is then you don't love him. Love and relationships are about loving and accepting who you are as you are. Not trying to change them. So, if you cannot deal with his faith or lack of faith, then you do not love him.
And aging we here ""'unequally yoked'"" how do you now thats what that means anyway? maybe it means you and yours should eat from eggs from that same chicken.
Look if you realy like him dont let an outdated belief stope you. My wife and I are not the same religion, im wiccan and shes athest, but its never caused a problem. dont try to change him just for you
If belief in a god is important to you, then find someone who shares that. Whatever you do, don't get serious with the guy thinking you can convert him. That's a recipe for disaster. Accept him as-is, or move on.
Don't let him shake your belief. thats all I can say. but you shouldnt put your love for him above your love for god. so just make sure if you stay with him that you dont let your belief be shaken.
According to the Bible, we are not to be 'unequally yoked', that is believer / unbeliever - it would help you to speak to your minister...Take care !!
lol, like you've heard, move on if it is that important to you for your sake, and especially for his sake
