My daughter is 12y old. overall she is a good child. And off course the big but has to follow, so, but whenever I speak to her she uses that tone of voice like I irretate her. is it a phase or any help in resolving this problem.
Shes a teen. Teens often act "strange". When I lived with my mother I use too do it all the time and its one of the reason that lead me to move out. When I'd (11ys of age) use that tome of voice it'd would bother her and I'd get humor out of it. It continued for the next cuple of years and it never got better. But there are a lot more reasons then just that. When this was happening I felt lost in my own life, I was more interrested in my atm (at the moment) friends to realize what I was actully doing. Although it hurt my mother I was not aware of it because she never told me how she felt about any of my actions so id continue and she'd get upset.
Just try and listen to her and when she acts out take a breath and explain to her how you feel and it might not seem to work but trust me she's going to think about it when shes falling asleep. And remember shes a teen and things get said that people dont mean. I always remember being told " its not what you say, but the way you say it "
Ok, my advice to you is just let her be. Don't bother her to much. I mean, you can talk to her but don't over do it. Keep convo's short unless she is showing that she is enjoying the convo. She probably just wants space and may be in the phase where she don't wanna be near you. I know thats not good to feel but it is going to happen soon or later. Just keep convo's short and don't hang around her to much. Let her out of the house and have fun with friends more. There also may be something bothering her. You should ask her if everything is ok, and if there is anything you can do for her to make things better. But if she says nothings wrong don't bother her anymore. Say ok and go do something else. But she probably just needs her space right now.
I am fourteen and I have caught myself doing this from time to time, usually either I wasnt in the mood to deal with my mom or I had something else on my mind. Its hard for a girl at that age so she is going to have times that she is just simply in a bad mood because of all that she has to deal with. try to be understanding but if you punish her that wont help anything, I know from expirence. It is possibly that she is in a more delicate situation then you know and if you punish her that could just make everything worse. try talking to her calmly, ask her if something is bothering her that you maybe have done or if something else is. hope this helps!
as a teen myself I just do it to my mum to act cool! but I don't do it any more! any way some teens do it to be rude and some do it to be cool! a good thing to do would be to talk to her one day and question her why she dose it! just try to buld a stronger relationship between you and her! hope this helped!!!
im going through that. my mom would call me from my quiet ipod time in my room to do crap for her wich pisses me off. maybe you sholdnt talk to her wait till she is ready to talk becaus snapping at her or calling her name just really makes her wanna kick your butt. I should know
it could just be you are actually annoying her...
I mean when I used to do that I was normally doing something. for example I would be watching tv.. mother asks something and id snap because I was into whatever I was watching... haha guess thats just a short temper tho.
She's made a clear choice to give you a poor attitude - not showing respect - I would tell her I love her but communication must be respectful and must change - again, she is CHOOSING to treat you like that - if continued, privileges would be far between.
k look if you say no to a lot of stuff sheel get pissed so if you want to say no giv her a few limits if she wants to go out w guy year older than her tell her it needs to be a double date 1 of the friend has to be a girl and you have to no her
sometimes teens dont really like parents getting into there buissness
I know I dont, bet you didnt either
well I would stop sayin what bothers her and listen to her treat her nice
Well, maybe you ARE annoying her.