My family hates me!

Ok my grandparents or all of my dads side hate me cause they think im just a idiot.like they have always hated my mom and my own grandparents say that I have no christ in my heart! They always go to see my cousin do a play or something but they never come and see me do stuff! And recently they went to see my cousin sing and my uncle didnt invite my family and he says he forgot I know he doesnt like us.last time my cousin andrew was going to spend the night my uncle said dont spend the night you need to be in a nice home not this home,and he was already packed and everything then he just lefted.see he is here from seattle and I never see him and his dad said for him to be with me cause we are both artist and we should work on art.but everyone is taking him away from me or something and never seems to include us!!! I hate this sooo much!!! And I talk to my family and all they say is you cant be with him plus my grandpa says stay away from my family! I don’t know what the hell to do ???!!!???

Answer #1

first you need to get rid of this in your head, now I know it might be true but then again thinking outside the box it just might be your interpretation of things.

think to urself “what else can this mean?” secondly, know: the more you give enough people what they want you will eventually get what you want. wise words from Tony Robbins and Zig Ziglar.

anyhow, I suggest you give, and give from your heart, attention and love and needs to them (your dad’s side) and you will in return get attention and love from them.

first dont give up. second give from your heart. third are you sure this is not a jelousy thing from your cousin or a crush to your other cousin? either way, be sincere and show your love and you will get love in return.

this might have been somthing thats tarted from before you were born, maybe they didnt agree towards your mother marrying your dad, but that is their problem to deal with because as far as I see your mom and dad are doing just fine with and without the need for his family. just hang in there and show your sincerity. that is if you care.

treat people like you want to be treated, no matter the circumstances, and eventually you can face them by saying “why do you treat me and my family like this? have I done something wrong I have shown you nothing but love and appreciation your my family”

then remember blood doesnt turn into water. family is family. you are bound till eternity, remind them of this with love. hang in there girl and if nothing else good comes out of this, then just be stronger and independent you dont need anyone but urself. remember your beautiful, honest, sincere and caring. otherwise you wouldnt have shared this with us.

thumbs up, chin up, smile, back straight, and hang in there. attitude is everything and you are in control of your mood, smile and the world will smile back!!

Answer #2

Wow! I went through the same thing because I went through a spell of where I dressed in all black and never cared about anyone! Try to see their point of view.

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