hello, I just had a miscarriage and im really depressed. I dont know what to do. me and my boyfriend were almost trying to have a baby for one one year and I had a miscarage. now all of a sudden he dont want to have a kid. and im just confusd that now I had a miscarage he isnt going to want to be with me after a while if I cant kids. I dont want the love of my life to leave me and I want children in life. but will he leave me over this. and why dont he want to have a kid anymore?
Its real easy for you guys to tell her to leave the one she loves but its hard when its the other way around my fiance said the same thing at first but give him time he will deal with it when hes ready. the next time you are pregnant or think your pregnant make sure you are before you get his hopes up he wont leave you because he knows it wasnt your fault. Think about it this way he wanted the baby just as much as you did and if your really hurt the he is too. You guys need to just sit down and talk and go to the doctor so you could start talking vitamins now and when you do get pregnant eveything will be okay.. Hope I Helped Funmail me if you eve need to talk
You should take this opportunity and find someone else. And I think deep down inside your heart, you know that. I don't know why you're with him, based on everything you've told us here. I'm sooo so sorry you lost the baby, but listen to me, in a few months you'll be feeling a lot better.
Btw. how is he dealing with the miscarriage?
he probably doesn't want a kid because he's afraid of losing another baby. I think if he will ever want to have kids again it won't be for a little while because he'll be scared. Just give him some time and when you think the time is right ask him if he will want anymore children. hope I helped:]
my heart goes out to you. in 2001 I finally conceived after 18 mths trying, then I had a misscarriage. it's so unfair. men find it hard to cope with too. maybe he's worried about lsoing another baby. talk to him about it. feel free to contact me.
he's obviously not ready, he's only 21.. and if he's going to leave you over a miscarriage, what does that say to you? like pretty much everyone has said this to you on this site... DUMP HIM, HE ABUSES YOU AND DOESN'T APPRECIATE YOU.
