How do I deal with an unfair dad?

Tell him that. Call him and let it all out on him. Tell him that you want dose moments back and there when you are alone with him you can tell him about his girlfriend and what she is causing you to feel.

Hey, I know exactly what your going through, believe it or not, my real father gave up on me because his wife didn’t like my brother and me. He eventually gave up on me, and since me being the oldest I had to lie to my brother a lot. DON’T let that woman let it get to that point. She may have her nice moments, but that doesn’t mean she can yell at you when she wants. You do infact, have to keep respecting her, well, because you have too. Just let your father know that you don’t want to loose him, that you love him a lot, and that your happy he is happy. Just ask him to talk to her and have her show you respect like your doing for her. If you need anything else reguarding this, let me know. I’ve been through it all. :]

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I think that you should think about all the things that make you feel the way you do about your dad. You should be able to give examples of this and how it hurts your feelings. Then, tell him you want to talk to him (if you can not say it, write it down). Tell him how and why you feel the way you feel. Just remember when you are telling him how you feel, try not to show any anger because this will spark the same feelings from him. If you remain calm, he will remain calm. If you feel yourself getting angry or upset just stop and tell him you can not talk about it until you calm down because you do not want to say anything while you are mad. Try to point out some postive things about this lady so that you dad will not think that you hate her all together. Good luck.

OKK.. .WELL… I JUST LOST MY MOM LAST YEAR IN MAY.I REALLY, REALLY, MISS HER AND I SORTA know HOW you FEEL IN A WAY. MY DAD HAS A girlfriend BEHIND ME AND MY SIBLINGS’ BACK , & I FEEL TERRIBLE AND ANGRY… BUT, IF I WERE U… I WOULD CALL HIM… OR EVEN GET YOUR GUARDIAN INVOLVED. I KNOW THAT SOME DIVORCED FAMILIES HAVE CHILDSUPPORT, SO I HOPE THAT HE ATLEAST CARES AND WONDERS HOW your DOING. you SHOULD, WHENEVER you GET THE CHANCE TO HANGOUT W/ your DAD ALONE… TELL HIM HOW you FEEL. I DO THE SAME W/ MY FATHER, AND WE are VERY CLOSE… BESTFRIENDS!!! SO, EXPRESS HOW you FEEL, & EVERYTHING WILL BE OKAY. I HOPE MY ADVICE HELPED U!!!

                                                                          VANILLA

Try to set up Dad Dates. Where just you and your Father do something together. Go to a movie, out to eat etc.