How to deal with my dad's friends?

My dad had a lot of friends some of them are even just a few years older than me ..but its really creepy when I hear them talking about me.. like today when I came home from school a bunch of them was sitting on the couch and when I walked by I heard one of them say damn I cant wait to get her in bed…An another time one of his older friends was like I just wanna throw her on da bed an watch her hair tangle through my fingers…And it gets worst…for my dadsz b-day a few weeks ago I walked by a group of them and one of dem grabed my ass and said no one has to know..people do that on the street all the time where im from but dats people my age and I grew up with…Everyone just sits dere and kissing up to my dad like he makes the rules and he doesnt belive a word I would say about anything! When his friends are around I try to avoid them as much as possible but its getting out of hand…what should I do?

Answer #1

talk to your dad about it; they are way outta line on this

Answer #2

Do the above and talk to your dad, if he doesn’t seem to care or doesn’t beleive you, don’t be afraid to get the police involved. That is sexual harassment.

Answer #3

wth? If that was my dad he’d beat the hell outta them. Demand from your dad tha you are not comfortable with his friends saying and doing things like that. You’re his daughter, you should be the one he believes in.

Answer #4

Well talk to your dad or bring somebody else from the family. A auntie, uncle, mom, grandma… Even a school councelor, The point is that somebody has to say something to your dad because this could get worse.

Answer #5

my dads friend was like that, he used to text me lots of creepy things, and send me videos of himself masterbating, I know how you feel sweetie, tell your mum, or siblings, if your dad doesnt believe you, when you go to school, talk to someone there, trust me hun, things will just get worse if you keep it bottled up.

Answer #6

wth! your dad seriously needs to take this serioiusly. try talking to him again, and if that doesnt work talk to the police or another person you trust. hope this helps :)

Answer #7

dont even bother telling your dad…

go straight to the police and report it.. they will be charged with some sort of sexual offence and hopefully but on the sex offenders register..

god I hate people like that!

Answer #8

Tell them if they don’t stop you will go straight to the police and tell them they are harrassing you. If it helps go to the police with an adult you trust. That should stop them right in their tracks before it gets worse. You have to show them they have no power over your life. It also helps to tell everybody out loud exactly what they are doing and right in front of them. The more people know the safer you will be. All people like that need is a dose of fear. Then they will get off your back.

Answer #9

Get proof put your phone on record when your by them every time so you dad can’t say that it’s not true if you have proof.

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