How can I get my Mom to stop telling me how to raise my kids?

I would never Tell My father or Mother or even Aunts and Uncles that they couldn’t displine my children if needed, And my parents didn’t with me when I was growing up. . . Your Mother is the Matriarch of your family and has the right to direct your child with in reason. instead of being upset with your mother you should be upset with the child for for needing to be disiplined by her. . . when I was a child if one of my grandparents grounded me My parents enforced it.

In a nice way, you need to explain to your mother that she has raised her children and that you have turned out well and now it is her turn to let the reins loose and allow you to raise your children.
Your mother has done her job and now it is your turn to do yours. Tell your mother it is now her job to ENJOY the grandchildren but to leave the worry of raising them to rest on your shoulders.

On one had I do mostly trust my grandparents but I have had to put my foot down in a few areas. You are an adult now, if your grandparents aren’t on the same page as you in childrearing than you have to lay down the law. If they are undermining your efforts you may have to distance your family from them until they come around.

how old are you???

LISTEN, I KNOW SHE IS YOUR MOM. BUT, MOMS HELP OR AT LEAST TRY. IT MAY NOT BE THE BEST ADVISE. I THINK EVERY G-MA DOES IT. IT’S WAT THEY DO …