she says bad words like an adult if we say i love you to her she says i love you to b!tch and fxck you to everybody.she says it like in a conversation.her mom tells her not to cuss but she does it in front of my cousin like its no big deal.we tried everything,please help
she also hits my mom and yells in her face to shut up and we give her spankings but she still doesnt listen.
well, I'm sorry but there isn't much you can do to discipline her since she isn't your child. Your sister needs to pull out the old fashion punishment. My mom washed my mouth out with soap whenever I pushed the limits with language. She wielded that belt like a champion..... (don't get me wrong, I love my mom and she only did it whenever we knew we were in the wrong.... which we did). If that isn't enough then start taking things away from her. She's gotta know who the boss is. Plus, she's 3.... it could just be a phase.
First of, it is not your job to discipline someone else's child. Secondly, where exactly do you think the child has learned this language? It's coming from the home. Lastly, spanking a kid is not highly effective when they have no idea what they're doing wrong. Your cousin has obviously not been raised very well, which is why she thinks it is acceptable to hit her mother (wait, lemme think, where did she learn to hit from?).
I don't think a 3 year old kid can stand chili. IS there any mother feed their 2 or 2,5 year old kids with spicy food? Well, since kids are modeling or imitating, the wisest way to do it is of course starilize the house fro people with saying bad words. She must have learned it from somewhere or someone. It will confuse her when she is not allowed to say bad words while others are allowed.
...lucky boy, if it worked ;) But you have to be careful not to overdo it; chili can cause an actual burn, especially to the tender mucous membranes (lips) of a toddler. You also have to be careful to do this calmly. If he sees that the naughty words get an emotional rise out of you, he will keep using them for that purpose despite the less pleasant consequences.
okay so get him a chile or a jalepeno pepper that has a curved stem, (the more the step is curved the hotter it is) and after that have him drink a soda (the carbonation with burn even more) and see if he wants to say those words again, the getting flicked in the mouth hurts a lot just practice your flicking til it hurts a lot
oh wow....it sounds like ur cousin is hearing it from somewhere....who ever ur cousin is hearing it from needs to stop saying it in front of him or her....and just let ur cousin no that those r naughty words and we dont say those kinds of words....but it mainly will stop if whoever is saying it in front of ur cousin stops too
My sister did this to her 4 year old son: she took a chili and said, if another one bad word is heard from your mouth, you will have to taste this chili. He did say it and she did put that chili on his lips. He cried like hell for the spicy. less harm and did not cause any physical damage yet is very effective.
put Chile in his mouth, hot hot Chile not any of that mild stuff, another is to spank him or flick his lips, my family would make you kneel in the corner on tile (some would add rice that the child would kneel on, it hurts like hell) another is to throw away his toys or take away things he likes
You cannot fooking forcefeed a 3 year old child hot chili! That's child abuse.
You should rather get a hold of the person whos teaching the kid the cussing, and take it by the roots.
This I what I used to do I wud put my nephews in time out and then made them clean or whatever to punish them and grabbed somthing that looked like it hurt and threatend to hit them
lol... since that time my sister put a bowl of chili and tell everyone in the house to use it if her son ever said bad word. none have been heard. poor boy LOL
say that you are gonna do something really bad if he does it again
Hehe! That's what my aunt did to my cousins!
she loves hot foods.