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It isnt wrong. It is what it is. I dont think you can control how you feel about another person. You can't stop living your life or doing other things, but the feelings cant always be changed. Just continue living your life, try to keep a little distance (hopefully this isnt your best friend), and just give it some time. You need to think about it though. Do you really love them or are you in love with an image you have of them. Sometimes it's easier to hold on to a fantasy of someone then to live with a reality of someone else. It is safer. Or sometimes we hold on for other reasons. Try to think about it a little. Is there another reason you're holding onto someone you can't have?
overall, unless you've been with the person before, you probably don't actually "love" them. of course it's not wrong - you can't help who you like; but seeing as you LIKE him, it's easier to move on. but if it's an ex boyfriend or something, you might still be in love -- and it's not wrong.
have you made it clear that you like him? if not, maybe it's time to. either that, or try to move on. moving on consists of finding yourself for one, and what you're going to do the next time you think you love or like someone :) it just means making time for yourself, exploring, etc.
make sure you're not forbidding yourself to like anyone else. you can get through this sweetie :)
how sure are you that they don't love you back?? have you asked the person their feelings towards you? if so and they have said they don't love you! but care for you then maybe their feelings will grow! bt if they say they don't love you then it's best to leave them it wouldn't make sense as the effection and love you want won't be returned!! love yourself before others,always!!hope this helps x
It happens to people all the time. The best thing to do is to move on before that person becomes so important in your life that it seems like they are the only important thing. There are planty of people out there and making a simple frianed is not as hard as it may feel like it is.
It isn't wrong but its just going to hurt the one who has all the feelings when none of it is returned from the other person. Its pretty much self destruction because they lover won't understand why the love-e isnt returning the feelings
It isn't wrong but its just going to hurt the one who has all the feelings when none of it is returned from the other person. Its pretty much self destruction because they lover won't understand why the love-e isnt returning the feelings
It is not wrong, but really honey loving that person will only hurt you more it is better to try to move on orelse you will end up with some sort of depression...Your very pretty im sure you can find someone :)
Of course it's not wrong! As long as you're not harming anyone/anything, it's not wrong!
I can tell you though, that loving someone, and not being loved back is one of the worst feelings in the world.
It's not wrong, you can't control who you care about. It will hurt though i wont deny. Just try to move on, cause dwelling on something that wont ever be will just hurt you even worse in the end.
No, its not! but dont let it consume you! If they dont love you back, walk away & have the pleasure of getting even when the time comes.
good luck!
I love someone who im not sure even cares for me anymore :-( or if they ever really did and just pretended they did.smh
It's not wrong at all, but there's nothing to be gained if the feelings will never be mutual.
im in the same situation that you're in, except the person i love, likes my bestfriend.. :(
Yes, it's wrong. Figure out a reason not to even like them and move on.
No it's not wrong but it makes you feel pathetic.
no its not....follow ur heart girly!
