Why does my boyfriend accuse me of cheating? Is he cheating?

My boyfriend constantly accuses me of cheating on him. we’ve been together for 5 years and I have been completely faithful. I love him and want only him but no matter what I do or say, or how hard I try 2 convince him, he just doesn’t trust. he calls me horrible names and will be so mean and destructive, I wonder how we made it this long. could it mean he is the one cheating?

Answer #1

love means trust. If he doesn’t trust you, it means he has issues. Also if he calls you names, he’s childish. Just let him know that his trust issues are hurting you both. Communication is key. Don’t allow him to think these things about you. If after talking to him about it, he still doesn’t get it then reevaluate the value of being with him.

Answer #2

If he is acusing you all the time he obv doesnt trust you, which isnt fair along with the names, no one should treat anyone like that, I understand you love him but does he treat you right? I dont think he would be cheating just because he acusses you.. Does he want to know where you are all the time and who you are with ? if so there is no trust from him to you and thats not fair on you.. Maybe he accuses you of cheating because of some reason such as; he cant see how someone as good as yourself is with him? as in being a good reason but taking it a step to far.. ? xxx

Answer #3

it might be because hes so faithful that he thinks your not toward him but also it might be reverse psychology where hes the one cheating and to say the truth I’ve never known a guy to last in a relationship for 5 years also he may need some help if he gets that angry by the sounds of it he just is in love with you but be careful he sounds mean

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