Obviously not drinking but dressing up as usual and going out? Me personally, I find it shocking it just doesnt look right yuno when theyre like noticeably preggers. I dont think it could harm the baby in any way but, I think it just looks weird....(im not judging or saying its WRONG btw)
I dont know about all the night clubs in your area -but there are plenty of clubs and bars in our area that are mostly the older generation (20-40). So what if dr.ugs are in the building...im not doing them. You realize that people are on dr.ugs everywhere right...even the grocery store and the mall. Am i supposed to not shop as well. You also mention the toilets having stds on them - for one, thats a myth, and two public toilets are EVERYWHERE not just at night clubs. Fights can break out anywhere and you can just as easily be knocked down at a mall or grocery store...although most pregnant women are smart enough to surround themselves with friends or their partner when they go out...were not helpless little kids...and someone barely bumping into our stomachs wont hurt the baby. Saying that clubs and bars are places that people go to hook up, sure some people there are there for that reason...what does that have to do with me? People also go to hang out with friends, have fun, and enjoy themselves.
Clubs are filled with shady characters and lots of potential threats....such as people doing drgs, alcohol and std's, which are transmittable on a dirty toilet seat! I know most might not see anything wrong with it bc they have done it, but in my opinion, I wholeheartedly disagree.
What if a fight were to break out and you were thrown to the ground or your baby was bumped?
And why would you even want to be seen in that manner at a nightclub? What did your husband think of this??? Would you tell your daughter, yeah I went to a nightclub when I was pregnant with you, so it's ok for you to do the same? I don't think so!
That is where people go to hook-up! There are soooo many other places to go have a nice evening with friends... restaurants, movies, etc..
When I was pregnant with my daughter, I always tried to be in positive environments, not in places that I consider to be meatmarkets for SINGLE people. If it looks wrong, feels wrong, seems wrong, it probably is.
Pregnancy does not mean disabled. As far as I remember those two have completely different meanings. There is nothing wrong with a pregnant woman go to a club.
Since you are worried about dru.gs, maybe she shouldn't go to the pharmacy either. I work in one and people really get addicted to almost anything.
Also it depends on the club. You do get clubs that are clean and where people don't smoke all over the place or get violent. And surely someone who is about to be a mother should be able to judge and decide that for hereself.
I am a pregnant woman, and have been before with my son. I still went dancingat clubs with my fiance and we still went to concerts. They do have smoke free bars and ane clubs now, that law is being passed in most states over time. I dont see why its weird that pregnant woman goes out and enjoys herself if shes not drinking. Shes allowed to, this is her last chance to enjoy these things without having to worry about a babysitter or wanting to stay at home with her baby. Dancing is also great excercise!
It is called interpretation and it naturally occurs when you read something.
But because you just chose to ignore it, I assume it is due to lack of understanding and will explain.
I implied by saying that that you implied (once again the interpretation part) that pregnant woman should not be in night clubs because there is something wrong with them. I used the word disabled, but left it open for INTERPRETATION.
sigh It is called reading into an answer. Don't take everything I say absolutely literally word for word. you'd be surprised, believe me at what pharmacists will sell to people or give to them just to make money.
And for heaven's sake, if someone tells me (I'm not pregnant btw) to try coke/whatever I am obviously going to tell them to go to hell. Why wouldn't a pregnant woman?
Are you serious? I've been to several. If I ever go to a club, I sit and chat with friends, and I have gone to a club while pregnant and I can assure you I didn't put my baby in jeopardy. What would you know of it anyway? Easy for a man to sit back and judge a woman's rights,isn't it?
There's no smoking in most clubs (at least around here - we have a public smoking ban), and if she's worried about the crowd, she can sit down and converse with her friends - she doesn't need to be jumping allover the floor. As for the fact that it's dark, well...what?
All it is, is getting out of the house to have a bit of fun, and have conversation...as opposed to staying in the house all day and maybe inviting friends to come sit on your couch.. =/ Women shouldn't be ashamed to go out in public just because they are pregnant...
I agree with Colleen, there is nothing wrong with a pregnant woman going out and having fun with her friends. As long as it is innocent fun and chit chat, and not drinking, smoking (which I do believe is banned in public places), or dancing to rough...
I NEVER SAID PREGNANT WOMEN SHOULDNT BE IN NIGHT CLUBS! Chuu are you stupid? I asked everyone what they think!!! If you read it properly then maybe you would understand or maybe you made your own interpretation and got it wrong. God!!!!!
Yeh people do sit around in a club, where I work there are about 20+ different places for a whole group of people to sit and its only a small venue and when i go out i sit around cos my feet are always killing me from my heels! lol
What makes pregnant women have to stay home? Are they not entitled to ave fun? The way I see it, as long as they aren't drinking, then what's the harm? Pregnant women have just as much right to enjoy life as anyone else.
lol how many nite clubs have u been where peeps sit around n chat with friends music is loud enuff to drown any talk. im sure the bouncers will let a pregnant person in a club public liability
Nope, not stupid at all. Just interpreting your words, and you said that you find it weird, that is why I INTERPRETED (really...this isn't a difficult word) that you find it unacceptable.
what did I say about disability, people in wheelchairs go clubbing. Shouldnt go to the pharmacy, i doubt anyone in the pharmacy is going to say 'hey try some coke/meow/mdma/ketamine'.
It entirely depends on the club. There are some clubs where it just wouldnt be a smart idea. But just because someone is pregnant does not mean they can't have fun.
Yeh i said it was weird i then said '....(im not judging or saying its WRONG btw)' :D isnt a difficult word? i never said it was :s
nite clubs r dark smokey n u think its ok 4 a pregnant woman 2 be inside a club not 2 mention nite clubs can be crowded
...i did comment but it got deleted :S...-_-. basically saying the clubs in my area are really bad :/
As soon as it doesn't include dancing very roughly and doing anything that can harm a baby,its fine.
well not weird that she goes out, but cos i dont see it very often but yeh you are right.
'Don't take everything I say abosultely literally word for word' Dont say it then!
Cool it jennybean....calling people stupid = bad idea.
I didnt call anyone stupid i asked her if she was
yeah i totally agree.
I agree...
