My mom wont let me go to any of my friends houses

Ok.so I am 13 and my mom wont let me go 2 any of my friends houses.not even during the day.the only family members house I can go 2 is my aunt sandys house wich is my moms sister. Do you think this is fair?

Answer #1

well, I can feel your pain my mom doesn’t let me stay at my friends’ house either, not even during the day, just like you. but I talked to her about it and her reason is that she doesn’t know their parents well enough to trust them w/ me. maybe it’s her reason too. but talk to your mom, in a CALM tone of voice and she’ll probably give you a reason.

Answer #2

Give it a while, she might loosen up. She’s just afraid for her little girl, that’s all.

Answer #3

I’ve had lotz of friends over and my mom even is best friends with one of there parents but she still wont let me stay with any friends!

Answer #4

See if you can have your friends over to your house. Maybe once she gets to know them she will let you go to their house.

Answer #5

no my moms like that. has been a while. she just overprotective. ik its annoying but its because she luvs u. :)

Answer #6

IT depends on who your friends are if they are like…drug heads and are a bad influence on you then your mom is only protecting you from a bad future

if they are just…regular kids then no its not fair.

you should ask her why

Answer #7

well me neither so I think this my help. try telling her evryday and she might get tired and she might let you go.

Answer #8

nope it is not fair but maybe she has her reasons , try to talk to her about it

Answer #9

Nahhh, I don’t think it’s really fair. Does she give you a reason? Does she let you have people over?

Answer #10

well I can relate to this because im 15 and for the last 3 years ma mom was like that always sayin these thin to make up a reason 4 you not to go but she lightin up now you just have to show her that she can trust you 1st because me and ma mom dont really have trust in each otha better off talkin to her I don’t know say 4 her to drop you off or sumthin or give you a time when to get home thin like that

Answer #11

because she wants you to be safe with men around you cant be too sure they might touch you in places that they shoulden’t

Answer #12

not my mom does it to me and it gets me so mad that its rediculous but I don’t blame her for doing this to me I’m not exactly an angel but to get my parents to let me out I just keep bothering them about it then they’ll finially get annoyed so bad that they’ll let me go

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