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Ok my cousin is a catholic and her parents are really into every thing catholic but she is sick of being catholic and wants to become a wicken, how does she go about telling her parents, and she want to tell them fast cause me and her agree that she shouldnt be going to church every weekend if she dosent belive in it, tell me what to tell her.
a pentagram necklace would be a good place to start, she will probably not be able to 'practice' her new religion until she gets out of the house. I am a solitary WICCAN- I do not belong to a coven, all of my sisters and relatives are christians- I could never buy into it. I guess if she started to redecorate her room with pentagrams, that might be a start. it is not like she is commiting a crime. to me organized religion is just another form of witchcraft when you actually look at it with an open mind. and the wiccan rede states- as long as it harms none, do what you will. well good luck, I will be here if you have any more questions.
Will her parents completely lose it if she tells them? If they are VERY Catholic, they probably will, and if they're going to church all the time, it sounds like they are. Your cousin has to decide whether her freedom is worth the pain she's likely to deal with.
When I reached the age that I didn't want to go to church, I would make excuses up to avoid it; spending the night at a friend's house, claiming to go to church with a friend, etc. That was a lot easier than telling my parents I thought it was all stupid. Once I moved out, I dispensed with the games.
My best friend is wickin and she is awesome...but if her parents are catholic they are probobly going to flip if she tells them she wants to be wickin..I dont know what to say..this is a tough one...she should just go to church and give them little hints untill they start to understand that she doesnt want to be catholic anymore...
Is she just doing it to rebel and hurt her parents and does she genuinely want to be wiccan? Before she does anything drastic I think that should be figured out. If she really is sincere it sounds like she should wait until she moves out.
umm whats wicken??? I'm catholic, and proud. why dont she like being catholic? I want to cry now! (LOL, joke) if it's what she wants, its ok with me, but... why???~??!?!@?!@?! :(
