I've worked with this married man for 9 months and never thought more than a great guy. (I'm single) Well, just recently with some innocent flirting (I thought) I am starting to see it take a major turn for him and myself. I see him in a whole different light with his exciting personality, intelligence, humor and sex appeal. He goes out of his way to be near me and I definitely see he as well as myself are struggling with not taking this any further. I cried all the way home from work tonight as I know it would be wrong, but, can't get him out of my mind. The SO difficult part is that I work with him everyday and it will only grow or be painful for me to tolerate working with him. What do I do?
Get a new job :) ,, but no really when people marry each other they obviously really love each other and want to be together forever. Just because you're attracted to this man and he's loving your attention doesn't mean you should be the reason he has an affair and break up his marriage. If you leave him alone and he keeps coming at you. Simply tell him you can't come between him and his wife. So if he is having problems with his wife and no longer wants to be with her. He can get a divorce and y'all can pick up where you left off.
Don't jump to conclusions, and don't cost either or both of you your jobs! Be careful. I admit, you may have something here. I advise you get to know said "wife" and his relationship in a few social settings, as a friend from work, and determine whether or not the consequences of your little mutual Drama will prove worth the effort. Consider also if this guy isn't just trying to cheat on his wife and get some "fresh meat". How old is he?
damn... If guys knew and fully loved who they had married, they wouldn't get into these situations. I kinda pity him...