Married and all I think about is another man

I’m married with 2 kids and so is this other man I’m involved with but we don’t want to hurt our kids, but neither one of us really is happy in our marriage and we have stronge feelings for the other one. We have seen each other several times and kissed several times, also we talk on phone a lot. we have had one close call where we just about to have sex and someone walked in on us, and we both want this to happen. What should we do?

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Answer #1

I think you should “think” VERY carefully about your actions — both of you —

Having been the “cheated on” one, I can tell you that once exposed a LOT of bad things come out of it including multiple ruined relationships, and the kids, like it or not become part of that issue…

Obviously, I was on the receiving end of such a thing, but I will tell you, it doesnt really matter which side you’re on — it will be a VERY bad thing…

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