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I know this sounds bad but I hate my dad. Im 13. I want him and my mom to get a divorce and me go with my mom and my brother go with my dad. I can tell my mom doesnt like my dad too. He is a jerk! Hes always blaming me and everyone else for things and is always screaming at me & my mom. Oh and get this: I told my parents I wanna go to Harvard and my mom totally supported it and was like telling ke how proud she was and stuff. Guess what my dad said? "oh you dont want to go there. All there is there is snotty rich people." and he wasnt joking. I serously hate him and my mom would be so better off without him & when I tell her she doesnt want to admit it and my dad makes her feel like crap she believes she dosent deserve anything wich in think is horible!! Please tell me how I can make them get a divorce!!!
Its never great to wish for something this horrible. I can see where you are coming from because my dad was exactly the same way towards my mom...its not great seeing someone you love get hurt, by someone you know sooo well.
my parents are divorced already my dad divorced my mom, and she is off being happy now. my dad keeps fooling around, I try to see it through his eyes. why is he acting that way??...maybe hes scared to see you grow up so quick.
maybe hes realizing how much he is losing you already. or maybe he just likes to be in control of everything.
Don't do anything to make them divorce, your mom is still with him for a reason. don't get in between, I know there your parents and all, but you never know maybe your mom is planning something to get away...just like my mom did.
if you want to give it a try at knowing whats happening to him, and why hes acting the way he is...maybe the best thing you could do, sit down and talk to your dad. tell him exactly what you feel, im sure hes capable of at least sitting down like a mature adult to talk things out with his own daughter.
I hope things work out, I know something good will happen. if you'd like to talk things out and let some anger and feeling out...feel free to funmail me or as for my email and stuff, I just understand what your going through and its not fun at all.
Dont worry, I know how you feel. My parents are abusive. They finaly split up, but my mom crawled right back to him. now things are ten times worse, well, I think that if they really hate eachother id talk to them about it, usually that doesnt work. because people are hard headed and dont listen. id completely ignore it and go on with m own life, act like it never happend.
You hate your dad because everyone hates there parents now and then. Even if you hate your dad, he loves you and hopefully you love him back. If your parents divorced, you would feel even worse. My friend's dad and stepmom are always drunk and are probably getting a divorse. I feel bad for him though because he is really sad and doesn't like to talk about it much.
hey.. I know exactly where you are coming from.. I am 14 and in the same situation. except I want my brother to stay with me and my mom. it sounds bad, but I feel like things would be better that way. uhm if you want to write on my page thats cool if you still want someone to talk to hope I helped=]
All I can say is that God hates devorce, but there is no excuse for anyone to be mean to their spouse. When your 18 and gone, your moms the one who has to deal with the failed marriage, so just remember it's not your marriage that will end, but your parents.
you cant make anyone do what they dont want to honey..
