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Ok my parents are so annoying thy always argue and I swear it's really getting on my nerves ino my father is a dirty cheating dog and my mom thinks I don't no that but I do and ino my mom is really unhappy with my dad they don't like each other anymore and ino ther stayin together cause if me and my brother but we don't want them together SO my question is how do I tell them I want them to get a divorce.
I tell my mom all the time that she should divorce my father. And telling her flat out that is what you think should happen, might not work. It will make you feel better though, knowing that you have informed her that it is ok with you and your sibling if they are not together. And in fact you guys would prefer them to divorce. But ultimately it is their decision. So if you guys are the only reason they are not divorcing, then it would be good for you to be honest with them. But if it isn't then telling her/them would only give you peace of mind knowing that there is something else keeping them together and it isn't you.
I think that you and your brother should sit down with both of your parents ad try to explain to tell how you guys feel. le them know that if they get a divorse that you guys would be ok with it. you al need to sit down and talk about what is going on. good luck with everything. I hope it all works out for you guys.
It is understandable that their constant fighthing may be getting on your nerves but the truth is that they are the ones who decide that. But, it does not mean that you cannot talk to them about how you are feeling about their constant fighthing and what it makes you think sometimes.
Well you can simply say how you feel. However, realize that you are not the center of their universe, and you have nothing to do with their relationship. So goodluck with anything positive coming out of that.
dont tell her flat out its not your place but try to let her know subtlely if you really feel this way also have your brother hint to your parents as well and hopefully they will get the message
You can't tell her to get a divorce but you can tell her how you feel about your father
