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My daughter is 2 years old and her father and I are not married. She goes over there every other weekend and every sunday night she stays too. A couple of months ago she came to me and said "My pop pop, who is her grandfather, touched my "toot toot""(we've always referred to her vagina as her toot toot) I said something to her dad and he said that his dad hadn't been around her alone or anything and I tried to just think that she didn't know what she was talking about. But I've always had that thought in the back of my head. Now Saturday she came to me and said "mommy, my pop pop touched my toot toot and I said OUCH!" I don't think that at 2 years old she could put those two together.. that he touched her there and it hurt. Tonight she was talking about her pop pop and I asked her what happened. she said that it was bleeding. I said well show me what happened. she laid down and said he opened it and then she stuck her finger in it and then said "then he closed it". I called a child abuse hotline today and they are gonna investigate. but do you think a 2 year old could make all that up?
Wow, I just read your post and by all means, thats very devistating. I know I have been molested myself and I know exactly how it feels when someone finds it hard to believe you. But come on, a two year old making that up? Why would they make it up? You know what I mean, and especially if she stuck her own fingers in there and demonstrated it? If you actually think about it, no child at that age would do that and know how to do it unless they seen someone show them or had it done to them. I pray for you. If your daughter is telling you these things, its better to call for help from the police officers sooner than rather later, because the chances of investigations will be higher and you may find evidence there. Make sure you record her visits with her father on a calender and basically make a diary of what she has told you, but if a police officer asked her what happened, also explain to her that everything will be fine and let her feel the confidence of explaining that to the police officer. If this is happening, stop the visits with her father as soon as possible! Your daughter is going to be emotionally ill and you will have to find her to help and the treatment for what has happened. I pray the best wishes to you ♥ I hope so much that your daughter is still in good shape and condition. Feel free to message me if you like.
a 2yr old doesnt know what molestations is so for her to say something like that she is telling the truth and you as her mother needs to not let her go around him with out supervision you need to sit down and talk with her father and tell him whats been said and how you feel and if he gets mad and disagree you let him know that you wont let her come back if shes going to be put in harms way...if you do and it keep happening and they find out that is true it will make you look bad ...I pray that it isnt true and I pray that shes okay..
I warning you big big serious it not funny if 2 year old can make it up or tell the truth what if her fake or whatever father did if you call child abuse they will took your 2 yearo ld it will be finished
No, no two year old could lie like that. What a disgusting old man. I really feel for you, this is a terrible thing to have happened.
Poor little girl. Lucky she had a mother who can fight for her.
No, a 2 year old cannot make that up. You did the right thing to get everything investigated.
