there was an arguement between my girlfriends best friend and i. she ends up hitting in the face twice. i knowing not to lay my hands on any girl punch a hole in her moms wall. my girlfriend doesnt blame me at all. her mom of course hated me to begin with for no reason. i fix the wall and apologize as sincerely as possible. a month passes and her mom finds out her and i were having sex. she then begins to bring up the hole in the wall and decides to threaten me with pressing charges if i dont break up with her daughter. is it possible for her to black mail me into court? does her black mailing help me out in court?
Hi, No she can not take you to court because the incident occurred a while ago, no police report was done and the damages were taken care of so there is no evidence. So she is just trying to scare you so you can stay away from her daughter. Now the big question you need to ask yourself is if you girlfriend is worth the challenges that lay ahead for you two? And two is there something you can do so smooth things over with her mom so ask to make your life and your girlfriend's home life easier?
I doubt she's actually going to press charges, she's just scaring you so you'll break up with her daughter. What is she going to say to the judge? "I don't like my daughter's boyfriend so make them break up." ??? If you already fixed the wall then what's done is done, it's her own fault for still being mad. She's just being overprotective over her daughter... Talk to your girlfriend about it and decide whether she's worth all this drama. Your girlfriend should also be defending you about this.
If she took you to court, the judge would request that you either fix or pay for the damage ... since that's already been done, there's no further action she can take against you - her case would be thrown out of court.