Could God forgive me if I'm gay?

if I am a gay person cud god forgive me. I feel dirty when I do it but ats hard to stop.

Answer #1

“Yet here you are… trying to defend one…”

From what I have seen, he hasn’t condemned anyone. I say from what I’ve ‘seen’ because I haven’t seen everything he has said. I don’t believe he has, but if he has and he has apologized and asked forgiveness then that’s all that matters. He is still human and makes mistakes.

Answer #2

Does it really make sense to you, that there is a god out there who purposely makes us one way and then holds us accountable for not acting against our nature?

Is this god of yours cruel, or simply stupid?

Answer #3

just b hu you r…your gay “big deal” god will forgive ya.

-ViCo

Answer #4

im catholic, and I know in this religion you’re not supposed to be gay. but God has to love you no matter what, right? He forgives all of your sins, right? Don’t worry about it, God will always love you=]

Answer #5

So… it would seem God has NOT abandoned the homosexuals, like you said before. So, you changed your mind? Or maybe you just realized you were wrong… again…

Answer #6

‘’Only ask relegious questions’’

Nice… spelling errors on the home page. Not a good start.

Answer #7

*[“Not all Christians oppose homosexuality, some do believe that it is a genetic thing like me.”]

*You do ERR not knowing the Scriptures. ALL Christians (I.e., who BELIEVE and hold the Scriptures as their sole AUTHORITY pertaining to the things of God…[2 Timothy 3:16]) DO oppose homosexuality…and NONE consider it genetic as do you.

*[“…So if you ask me, the answer is no…because its not even a sin…”]

*Your answer is “no” because you do NOT hold to the INSPIRATION of the Scriptures [2 Timothy 3:16-17] and have set yourself up as your own “authority” pertaining to the things of God. You are your own “god”…that is, you have set up yourself as the ARBITER of what is “sin” and what is NOT.

The Bible which you admit you are unable to quote…and know little or nothing about…says homosexuality IS a SIN [Romans 1:18-32]…which you DENY in opposition to it.

*[“…Even if it is though, God will surely forgive you (according to the Bible)…”]

*That is true…God will surely forgive the homosexual if he truly REPENTS of his SIN [2 Chronicles 7:14;Proverbs 28:13;1 John 1:9;Psalm 34:14,18;51:17;Isaiah 55:6-7;Acts 3:19]. REPENTANCE is NOT making a resolution to do better…and it is NOT conviction of sin…for a person can be convinced that He is wrong and still NOT repent. Repentance is a CHANGE of mind…a CHANGE of heart…and it RESULTS in a CHANGE IN ACTION [Acts 3:19-20].

*[“…Don’t ask me for Bible quotes, Im no Biblical scholar.”]

*Very few are.

Avim

Answer #8

coralleah

You know what is sooo sad. All these people saying that Godt exist. Say whatever you want but you know there is more to life than this… Are you guys truely that ignorant to think that God could exist? I used to be that way believing God and everything, but I have grown out of that fantasy long ago. He isn’t real. And say what you want, but you will have a rude awakening when you rot in the ground/ reincarnated.

Do you like that? Just because you believe in it doesn’t mean it’s real. You cannot prove he exiest. Creation has been scientificly explained. Perhaps there is a God, but whose to say it’s the bibical God? you? Sry, but your opinion doens’t really matter to me, & niether does anyone else’s to be honest(with few exceptions). & who is to say what you say is correct? You can’t prove that it is. People who chose not to believe already know the risk, we choose to take them. I use to be Christian, if I’d found any truth in it I wouldn’t of left it when I did. I found truth in what I believe in now & am happy the way I live. If preaching the bible to me would change anything I would’ve converted back 7 years ago

Answer #9

“REAL Christians don’t misrepresent their beliefs, by acting so intolerant and condemning of others. REAL Christians know how to present their beliefs in a ‘positive’ manner that actually draws interest, not resistence. Telling people they’re going to burn in hell, and saying they’re the son of Lucifer, is NOT CHRISTIANITY”

You’re right. We don’t misrepresent our beliefs but we’re not God and we’re not perfect. Some Christians mix things up and don’t realize it. That does not mean that they aren’t a real Christian. I know what Christians you speak of. The same Christians that keep me from church. The condemning ones. As much as I ‘dislike’ them, I can’t say they aren’t real Christians. They just don’t understand how to reach people. On the last part..haven’t met many of those types of people.

I don’t believe you can say someone is not a real Christian just because of the way they represent themselves and God. On some days, you couldn’t say I was a Christian. I can be extremely mean and non caring. I still am a Christian but I have a lot to work on. And I’m not very educated when it comes to the Bible, again I can’t stand condemning Christians which is why I don’t go to church as I should. However I’m still a real Christian. Again, I just have so much to work on.

Answer #10

God will ABANDON them by removing His restraint and allowing their sin to run its inevitable course.

You seem to take pride (sin) in altering scripture (sin). The scripture doesn’t say God ABANDONS people. You’re making the Bible seem even more contradictory than before. Since this is clearly YOUR opinion, why don’t you explain at exactly what point God will abandon a homosexual? How many ‘gay acts’ must a fairy perform? Do ‘gay thoughts’ count toward this abandonment? Or are you strictly talking about guy-on-guy buttsex? How many demerits for each possible ‘act of gayness’?

Oh, and while you’re pontificating, on what authority does your ‘speculation’ override [1 Corinthians 6:9-11] ??

The apostle Paul refers to the self-destructive nature of this sin, of which, AIDS is one frightening evidence

Yeah… no wonder so many STRAIGHT people have AIDS… what a crock. The bible doesn’t talk about STDs. From a biblical standpoint, homosexuals aren’t responsible for AIDS… GOD is. GOD CREATED ALL THINGS. Good or evil, sweet or sour, dandruff or AIDS. [Isaiah 45:7]

Answer #11

“Because that’s the teeny-tiny world he lives in… only HIS opinions matter. He can’t even acknowledge any outside information. So, in a matter of speaking… he is alone.”

Sorry but how do you know his opinion is the only one that matters to him? Did he tell you this or is this something you assumed? I’m guessing you assumed since I know he doesn’t only care about his own opinion.

“He can’t even acknowledge any outside information.”

Outside information? Outside the Bible I”m assuming, correct me if I”m wrong. Why should he? Christians should not bend on their faith. I acknowledge that their are gay people out there, sure they exists. However I don’t believe it’s right.

And he’s not alone. He has God..which is all he needs..and I also happen to completely agree with him.

“No… all he does is misrepresent Christianity, and tries to demonize ANYONE who disagrees with him, including REAL Christians”

How does he misrepresent Christianity? From what I read from past conversations, he gave you clear evidence from the Bible and explained how he came to his conclusion.

Demonize? Hmm..I’m pretty sure I’ve read most of his posts and I haven’t seen him do that to anyone. I’ve seen some of these ‘real’ Christians on here who believe homosexuality is right and other things that go agains the Bible..why shouldn’t he give his opinion which may contradict theirs? Because their both Christians, they can’t disagree? So that means he’s demonizing ‘real’ Christians? Hmm..you must explain this to me because I don’t quite understand. Well actually, don’t bother. I don’t care to understand your logic.

Answer #12

Homosexuality IS a CHOICE…

ALSO a theory and speculation… idiot.

Sorry but how do you know his opinion is the only one that matters to him? Did he tell you this or is this something you assumed? I’m guessing you assumed since I know he doesn’t only care about his own opinion.

Its evident by his behavior, and attitude toward other Christians who disagree with him. Yes, His opinion is the only one that matters to him… and those who agree with him… therefore they SHARE the opinion… HIS opinion. It’s not hard for you to understand. It’s the core principle of being narrow-minded.

*Outside information? Outside the Bible I”m assuming, correct me if I”m wrong.

You’re wrong. Quit assuming. The Bible has been referenced, contradicting his opinions, and he simply cannot respond.

Christians should not bend on their faith. I acknowledge that their are gay people out there, sure they exists. However I don’t believe it’s right.

Christians have made a HABIT of bending their faith, hence the 38,000 denominations. Which on is right? Should I assume that YOU assume YOURS is right?

And he’s not alone. He has God..which is all he needs..and I also happen to completely agree with him.

That’s obvious, since you’ve wasted your post defending him (poorly), instead of contributing to the discussion. Oh… that also makes YOU an idiot as well… and not a REAL Christian, either.

How does he misrepresent Christianity? From what I read from past conversations, he gave you clear evidence from the Bible and explained how he came to his conclusion.

…and then later contradicted his own views… PAY ATTENTION.

Demonize? Hmm..I’m pretty sure I’ve read most of his posts and I haven’t seen him do that to anyone

Well… then I suggest you real ALL of them… but, even if you do, you don’t have access to his funmail conversations.

Hmm..you must explain this to me because I don’t quite understand. Well actually, don’t bother. I don’t care to understand your logic.

You couldn’t… since you ‘completely agree with him’

Answer #13

God is real… and he loves you very much.

And yes, he will forgive you, when you come to him with a sincere heart, and it sounds as if you already are.

Some sins are harder to overcome than others, and this one is at the top of the list. However, that does not mean that it is impossible.. exactly the opposite, because the word says that With God… all things are possible.

First you need to find a spirit filled church, that does not condemn, one that is willing to pray with you and stand with you, holding you accountable… for your decision.

Also, you more than likely will need to fast, to bring your flesh under subjection to the spirit. The bible says that the spirit is willing, but, the flesh is weak.

You need spiritual support to do this, if you seek it out, you will find that it is available. Stay in the word, and under annointed preaching/teaching, and with ones that love you, and will pray with you.

Also, here are some places where you can get extra prayer, I use them often.

wjcr.org

ourdailyprayer.org

godswork.org

God be with you…

Father God, I lift up this young man to you, thanking you that his heart is already repentant, thanking you that his conscience is not seared over, but, that he can still hear your call to him, by feeling that this is wrong, you placed this ability within man, when he was sent out of the garden of Eden, to help him find his way back to you, and that is what this young man is feeling. I pray for your hand to be heavy upon his life, lead him where you want him to be, place him in the right group of believers, ones who will nurture him in his walk with you, ones that will teach him correctly, and help him to rid himself of this unholy alliance, free him from this, I pray, deliver him from evil, and set his feet on firm ground. Help him to be free from the guilty shameful feelings that he is experiencing, by turning his back on this practice, that is forbiddn in your word. Surround him with ones that will help him, and we give you praise, ahead of time, for what you are willing to do, free him, and annoint him as your witness… to bring freedom to others. Reach out and touch them by the power of your spirit, drawing them to yourself. in Jesus mighty name. Amen.

God be with you… (((hugs)))

Answer #14

Least in america being gay isn’t punushable by death. We’ve more freedom here than people realize. I think it’s time people start enlightning themselves of how much freedom they have and take advantage of it.

Answer #15

Did anybody ELSE notice that ‘avim’ IS a theist, and IS NOT homosexual, and was only posting this question so HE could answer it HIMSELF? And did anyone notice that his question had ‘intentionally’ horrible spelling/grammar?

I guess he thinks being gay means you can’t put a sentence together… idiot…

Answer #16

*[“why does nobody listen? ITS A PROOVED SCIENTIFIC FACT GAY PEOPLE ARE BORN GAY. ITS DO TO WITH HORMONE INBALANCES WHEN THEYRE A DEVELOPING FETUS…”]

*It is decidedly NOT a FACT at all…only a theory and a speculation. Homosexuality IS a CHOICE…and those who oppose this view are those who seek a way to JUSTIFY their SINFUL and FILTHY BEHAVIOR because they feel GUILT…and are seeking a way to assuage that GUILT by trying to ELIMINATE the STIGMA attached to their SIN by saying it is an INHERITED behavior. The REAL fact is that homosexuality is a FILTHY PERVERSION…and, as such, will result in ETERNAL DEATH in HELL for ALL who practice it..

Avim

Answer #17

You seem to put all Christians in one little bubble.

No, I don’t…

You seem to assume that whatever you believe is right.

You assume a lot… and you have no idea what I believe.

I just don’t want you to make every Christian out to be the same, we all make mistakes.

I’m not… I don’t generalize Christians… if you’d been paying attention, you would’ve noticed that.

Oh and I am a REAL Christian..maybe not in your eyes but what is your opinion on a REAL Christian?

REAL Christians don’t misrepresent their beliefs, by acting so intolerant and condemning of others. REAL Christians know how to present their beliefs in a ‘positive’ manner that actually draws interest, not resistence. Telling people they’re going to burn in hell, and saying they’re the son of Lucifer, is NOT CHRISTIANITY.

Answer #18

God will most definately forgive you…your still a person and everyone makes mistakes or sins God loves you just as much as he loves everyone else

1 John 3:16~ This is how we know what love is: Jesus Christ laid down His life for us. And we ought to lay down our lives for our brothers.

1 John 4:7~ Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God.

1 John 4:10~ This is love: not that we loved God, but that He loved us and sent His Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins.

Christianity does not agree with homosexuality but we will accept you and love you and do our best to point you in the path that leads to the Lord.

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Answer #19

I really do hate when I hear a person say “ your going to hell for being gay”! that is why American is fucked up now! everyone what you to be the same in american if your not you are an out cast! why? I don’t know but I know that American is one fucked up Country.., and I dont think gay’s go to hell just for being what they was born to do! that is why people are killin themselves!! I really hate that but… God loves you and if he send you to hell., I don’t know what type of god im sevring 4 real I hope the best for your

Answer #20

*[“One more thing…how can you repent from being gay?…”]

*To repent you must see yourself for what you really are…a SINNER. You may not like to hear that…but it does not change the fact that you are: “For ALL have SINNED and fall short of the glory of God” [Romans 3:23]…”As it is written, there is NONE righteous, no, NOT ONE: There is NONE that understandeth, there is NONE that seeketh after God” [Romans 3:10-11]…”The soul who SINS is the one who will DIE” [Ezekiel 18:4].

You must REPENT (I.e., that is…you must turn away from your SINS). Repentance is NOT making a resolution to DO BETTER and it IS NOT conviction of sin…for a guy can be convinced that he is wrong and still NOT REPENT. Repentance is A CHANGE of mind…a CHANGE of heart…and it results in a CHANGE in ACTION!…”Repent ye therefore, and be converted, that your SINS may be BLOTTED OUT, when the times of refreshing shall come from the presence of the Lord; and He shall send Jesus Christ, which before was preached unto you” [Acts 3:19-20].

*[“…Its not a choice! That just like me repenting from being black, you can’t change they way you were born…”]

*You are mistaken. There is a difference between being gay and being black…and the two are NOT equatable. You CANNOT change the color of your skin…and being black is NOT a SIN. However, you CAN REPENT of being a homosexual (I.e., which IS a BEHAVIOUR and a SIN). Being born black is a physical thing and is normal and has nothing to do with sin. Homosexuality is a BEHAVIOURAL problem and it involves a CHOICE…IS a SIN…and must be REPENTED of to be forgiven. If the homosexual persists in his SIN and does NOT repent of it…God will ABANDON him: “Wherefore God also gave them up to uncleaness through the lusts of their own hearts, to dishonor their own bodies between themselves” [Romans 1:24]…”And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God GAVE THEM OVER TO A REPROBATE MIND, to do those things which are not convenient” [Romans 1:28]. God will ABANDON them by removing His restraint and allowing their sin to run its inevitable course. The apostle Paul refers to the self-destructive nature of this sin, of which, AIDS is one frightening evidence.

*[“No matter what you do or who you sleep with, you will always be gay (and theres nothing wrong with that)”]

*N/A

Avim

Answer #21

I feel so sad everytime I hear these sorts of questions and its upsetting how terrible religion is. Its the root cuase of all evil and I truely believe that.

How bad is that- saying people mustn’t be attracted to or have sex with the same gender. Homosexuals and bsexuals cant help being the way they are- its in you from the second your born and thats been prooved. thers nothing you can do to deny it. Honestly the ony way for you to ever feel as if what you’re doing is ok is to stop readin the bible love. If you’re gay and are still a christiian you’re going to feel like you’ve sinned all the time. Why live a life like that. Free yourself and be who you want to be, dont listen to some book or some persons words. You cant help it so just enjoy it and love yourself for who you are

Answer #22

What does God say about people needing phycological help…split personality ain’t attractive avim…or strawman…or bible basher…

Answer #23

This is one reason I AM NOT CHRISTIAN. People are born gay and who would God create someone just to damn him? Live your life, but don’t buy into all that religious bs if you want to hold on to your sense of self worth.

Answer #24

No, You are not aloud to be gay. On the day of judgement God will judge you and if your gay well that is a HUGE sin. So most likely you will go to hell. You shouldn’t be gay thats just wrong.

Answer #25

No… all he does is misrepresent Christianity, and tries to demonize ANYONE who disagrees with him, including REAL Christians.

Answer #26

Because that’s the teeny-tiny world he lives in… only HIS opinions matter. He can’t even acknowledge any outside information. So, in a matter of speaking… he is alone.

Answer #27

I agree with beth_liveyourlife . It is sad to see so many people, a slave to their own religion. I am gay, too, but do not believe in god. If you are truly gay, just stop reading the bible, or you will feel guilty your whole life. You can’t help who you are, hun. Be happy, and be proud of yourself.

Answer #28

you cant be judged by something that doesnt exist. Religion is nothing but a bunch of bull. You can be as gay as you want and theres nothing this so called god can do. think about it this way god made you the way you are so he cant judge you

Answer #29

*[“…Could God forgive me if I’m gay?”]

Strawman:

Yes, God would forgive anyone who truly comes to Him in REPENTANCE…for it is written: “All that the Father giveth me shall come to me: and him that cometh to me I will in no wise cast out” [John 6:37].

Avim

Answer #30

Yes, God would forgive anyone who truly comes to Him in REPENTANCE…for it is written: “All that the Father giveth me shall come to me: and him that cometh to me I will in no wise cast out” [John 6:37].

Funny… last time this came up, you said God has ‘abandoned’ homosexuals. BOTTOM LINE: Make up your mind, Polly…

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Answer #31

why does nobody listen? ITS A PROOVED SCIENTIFIC FACT THAT GAY PEOPLE ARE BORN GAY. ITS DO TO WITH HORMONE INBALANCES WHEN THEYRE A DEVELOPING FETUS. You al reckon that god creates you all right? The if he didnt want anybody to be gay why would he let it happen. seen as though you think hes all good and all powerfull why would he pre make a sin, a sin can that you can not help. its totally pathetic

Answer #32

Not all Christians oppose homosexuality, some do believe that it is a genetic thing, like me. So if you ask me, the answer is no…because its not even a sin. Even if it is though, God will surely forgive you (according to the Bible). Dont ask me for Bible quotes, Im no Biblical scholar

Answer #33

One more thing…how can you repent from being gay? Its not a choice! That just like me repenting from being black, you can’t change they way you were born. No matter what you do or who you sleep with, you will always be gay (and theres nothing wrong with that).

Answer #34

“Christianity does not agree with homosexuality but we will accept you and love you and do our best to point you in the path that leads to the Lord.”

How BIG of you, to accept and love homosexuals as if they are almost the same as you. How about all the Christians who want to do their best to point homosexuals to the path that leads to the Lord clean up their own acts first.

People who live in glass houses…

Answer #35

e622 The media is pushing the being gay is a sin, so I doubt it’s do to media that people are like this. Homosexuality goes back to the dawn of time, back to cavemen, and humans are not the only animals to experience homosexuality. And if it’s a sin only because it doesn’t’ produce offspring, then syllabus must be a sin too, is it not? If not, then why is being gay a sin? And it’s not like we need anymore people on this planet, we already have 6billion, the population is predicted to double in decade. Already millions of people are living in poverty, starving to death dieing of dieses, homeless. Millions of children are without a family, either because they died or just didn’t’ want them. So really, what’s so bad about being gay?

Answer #36

god will forgive if you ask him to I’m not gay for sure but I’ve been raised I a strickened christian household and I think its honestly sad how people don’t believe in god or that they are calling someone satin and you can call me that because I know that god loves everyone and he will always you will have to answer for being gay but if your truly sorry god will see that and will forgive you but always make sure you thank god for this because he is helping you and giving you a good life.. I hope this helped

Answer #37

Avim is a liar and tries to “trick” others…lol… could he be “satan”?

Answer #38

Well… aren’t proving anything PERIOD.

Answer #39

TROLL? WHAT YA MEAN LOL :S

Answer #40

aw that is sadd! the second comment. )= I feel the same when iwhen I hear that

Answer #41

You know what is sooo sad. All these people saying that God doesnt exist. Say whatever you want but you know there is more to life than this… Are you guys truely that ignorant to think that God could not exist? I used to be that way deny God and everything, but I have SEEN him work through me and around me. He is real. And say what you want, but you will have a rude awakening standing at the gates of hell for the rest of eternity. I just feel sorry for you. As for you the gay guy– God will forgive you if you ask. And he will always love you, and walk with you through the hardest times of your life. You cant help the way you feel, but dont let God go. He loves you and he will forgive you.

Answer #42

Okay Avim, We get what G-d says about homosexuals.

What does G-d say about liars and those who give false witness?

“I fear that I have given you the wrong impression by posting the question on this forum. I am NOT a HOMOSEXUAL. I created a “strawman” (I.e., a fictitious person…to whom I would post questions…who is, in reality, myself. I am asking MYSELF the question). I did this in order to avoid talking to certain people with whom I did not wish to have dialogue with because they did not really want to know the truth. I shouldn’t have done that because it caused confusion and did NOT serve a useful purpose…too, it was NOT pleasing to the Lord.

HOMOSEXUALITY is an abomination before God…but these poor people on this board do NOT realize how filthy it is because they are at enmity with God.

Avim”

So, you set up a “strawman” and lied about being homosexual. A lie, that convinced a certain christian that you were homosexual. You did all this to “trick” those of us “sinners”. You actually think that homosexuality is an abomination and filthy.

Let’s look to the bible 1 Timothy 1:10 >>

for those involved in sexual immorality, for homosexuals, for kidnappers, for liars, for false witnesses, and for whatever else goes against the healthy teaching

Wow, the bible lumps liars in with homosexuals and those who give false witness…

So…according to you homosexuals are filthy abominations and the bible lumps liars with homosexuals… so you are a filthy abomination.

Doesn’t seem so loving and christian when it applies to you, does it?

Answer #43

You seem to put all Christians in one little bubble. We’re not all the same, you know. And no, I’m not an idiot but thanks anyway. I don’t care to contribute too this conversation. This debate over whether being gay is natural or a choice will never go away. People will continue to debate over this, it’s a classic nature vs. nurture.

I believe it’s wrong as I already stated. I honestly have no more to say on the subject. I will say that I do believe that there are cases of hormonal embalances that cause a person to have certain ‘feelings’ for the same sex. I still believe it’s wrong to act on those feelings.

You seem to assume that whatever you believe is right. That’s your choice..believe what you want. I just don’t want you to make every Christian out to be the same, we all make mistakes. Oh and I am a REAL Christian..maybe not in your eyes but what is your opinion on a REAL Christian?

Answer #44

I can’t stand condemning Christians which is why I don’t go to church as I should.

Fortunately, going to ‘church’ isn’t a requirement for Christians.

On the last part..haven’t met many of those types of people.

You’re currently DEFENDING one…

Answer #45

if there is a god, I’m sure it would thank you for trying to seek love, regardless of the gender in question. it’s probably FAR more concerned with other matters, though, like trying to figure out some way of helping delusional zealots out of their ignorance.

Answer #46

Dude, don’t worry. To tell you the truth, I have no idea if there is a God or not. However, if there is a God, he should be perfectly fine with you being gay. You were more than likely born the way you are, so in a manner, God made you gay. I wouldn’t worry about him “sending you to hell”. God has been re-animated in terms of tolerance many times. If there is a God, he is an open-minded being, and probly doesn’t judge. Don’t listen to those deeply religous morons who can’t think for themselves and rely on a paster/priest to interpret their OWN BELIF. I wouldn’t listen to their lectures on “hell”. Bottom line: God or no God, you won’t go to “hell”, and you don’t need to be “forgiven”.

Answer #47

Damn I need to pay more attention. I was wondering what strawman ment lol. That’s so sad. Good catch cap. Still my answer stands.

Answer #48

I cant believe how mad/crazy people are. Get with the times. Most religions are thousands of years old, the morals of that religion are so outdated. The times have changed. people have evolved mentally.

We’re SUPPOSED to be a civilzed race were anyone, no matter what they look like or what gender they prefer is accepted. But religion is stopping people from evolving! It casues wars, death, anxiety- it casuses people like this man to be ashamed and for what? A book written thousands of years ago. A book that clearly contradicts itself all the time. A book that is proberly just myth anyway. Why would you want to live your life by that book?

Answer #49

I see you live in Northern Idaho. I lived in the Burley area for 18 years now I live in Boise.

I believe in God. I do not believe that he would hate me for something I feel I cannot control in my life. I don’t believe he would hate me for being me.

Thinking that to myself has helped me a lot as I was raised Mormon. I don’t believe in religion, but I believe in God.

You’ll be fine! Just be you!

Answer #50

HOMOSEXUALITY is an abomination before God

Yeah… sure… the Bible also says its an ‘abomination’ for women to wear men’s clothing. Filthy indeed. And women must be silent when in a church, because doing otherwise would be shameful. So do you run around the forums condemning women for wearing pants or talking at church? No… you seem too caught up on the whole ‘tinkerbell’ issue.

You only follow / vocalize the rules you happen to AGREE with.

Answer #51

God doesn’t make us homosexuals. We choose it ourselves. With the free will God has given us. We are not born that way. Those who have chosen this life is for some reason in theier life felt an absence in relationship they try to fill with same sex attraction. and have reinforced it in themselves. God forgives all. It’s all about choices. God bless. (from a former homosexual)

Answer #52

I have to comment…let’s really look at homosexuality and how we were created. We know that God sent us hear to take dominion over the earth and multiply. When He said multiply He was referring to us having children…is it at all possible for a man to impregnate a man…or women with a woman? NO! My believe is we are all born with a knowledge of what is good and what is bad. If you have to ask this question then maybe you all ready know the answer. Remember we are heavily influenced by media to such an extreme that we can’t see that homosexuality is, at the end of the day, lust! When people get there minds in order, then you will find the answer you are searching for.

God bless.

Answer #53

here’s my two sense…

Assuming THERE IS A GOD. (assuming. whatever you want to believe really)

Assuming GOD is real. Why WOULD”NT he Forgive you? for that matter, WHY would he even be Mad? I mean. God loves EVERYONE. and he MADE man in HIS image. so what would our sexual orientation matter? We act. and we do JUST what we were made to do.

Straight. Gay. Bi. whatever. god loves Everyone. what does it matter what our orientation is.

Answer #54

Who cares what the bible says. It also says God is all knowing, made everything, INCLUDING evil “I form the light, and create darkness: I make peace, and create evil: I the Lord do all these things.” ~*~Isaiah 45:7 He makes you, he knows you before you’re born, births you anyways knowing how you’re going to turn out, then throws you in hell because you’re not the way he wants you though he’s the one who made you…makes perfect since 1_~ screw the bible, the bible was made by MAN as long as you worship him, praise him, yada yada, if there is a God you’ll gain his favor.

Answer #55

First of all, God can forgive any sin as long as you accept that Jesus died to save you from your evil ways. Second, the Bible says many times that practicing homosexual sex is an abomination. It does not say that homos are abominations, only what they do. But the Bible also says that stealing and lying are abominations. Sin is equal in God’s eyes, so one sin is not greater than another.

In Genesis, Soddom was destroyed because some male travelers were staying with some friends. But all the town’s men, young and old, came to their door, wanting to have sex with them. But the angel inside came out and told them to turn from their wicked desires.

Answer #56

God loves you. I promise.

Answer #57

Don’t worry. There is no God. If you born gay be proud of that. I don’t understand how its anybody else business. Why suppress a natural part of you. If you denied you natural sexuality there won’t be some reward in the end. Just a life time of suppression and guilt. Why feel guilty? Cause some old man 1500 years ago said its wrong? Homosexuality is a natural thing. All I hear is that if you accept Jesus that you will be forgiven but that doesn’t change the fact that your gay.

Answer #58

No. In the Bible it clearly states that Christians must not be homosexual.

Answer #59

If theres a God wouldnt he want you to be happy? if not, who needs him! dont you worry about it!

Answer #60

You have nothing to be sorry about. There is nothing for you to repent from or be “cured” for. Your lifestyle is perfectly natural, as nature itself has shown by the existence of thousands of species in which homosexuality exists. Continue in the lifestyle and sexual orientation you’re comfortable with, and ignore the inane ramblings of religious bigots.

Answer #61

I’m aways amazes me how some people are so convinced of there own delusions.

We answer because some of us don’t think that religion is the answer to the question. The christian religion itself has made its position clear on homosexuality. Some of us believe that homosexuality is natural and there is no reason to be ashamed.

Answer #62

listen for all you people who think their is no ggod you better get a reality ckeck because the reason you have all the things you have,it because of the lord . so you best be thankful for what you got. and god forgives everyone and it not you fault you are the way god made you so live your life and live it well.

Answer #63

…what in the world…??

yeah captain…I noticed too.

Answer #64

Any sin except blasphemy can be forgiven if you ask and recieve Jesus into your heart/life - see my page for information to help you - you’ll be in my thoughts and prayers…Take care !!

Answer #65

I don’t believe he has

Well, I KNOW he has… since I witnessed it, and so have others.

but if he has and he has apologized and asked forgiveness then that’s all that matters.

He hasn’t… and why would he? He thinks his behavior is what God wants. Otherwise, he would’ve stopped LONG ago.

Answer #66

Yes… this sort of thing is ALL that he does on this site…

Avim is a liar and tries to “trick” others…lol… could he be “satan”?

Or worse… he could be… SANTA!

Answer #67

Repentence is key… and in order to repent you can’t live that lifestyle anymore, but yes God can forgive you if you’re gay, but you have to repent.

Answer #68

it never ceases to amaze me how these athiests are so busy trying to covince people there is no god and when they see a question that relates to god from someone who belives why bother to answer or even share insight.if they belive that way thats between them and god,they shouldnt bother to answer questions related to the lord .be careful who you take advice from now to answer your question if you confess your sin he is faithful and just to forgive your sins and to cleanse you from all unrightousness ..god can deliver you if you from homosexuality just began to seek him I would suggest also finding a spirit filled church where the lord is moving and his will is being done you will be in my prayers and feel free to contact me if you need a friend jesus loves you by his stripes you are healed and I claim your deliverance from that way of life in the name of jesus god bless

Answer #69

There have been some messed up answers by some well meaning people. The only sin that can’t be forgiven is “Blasphemy of the holy spirit”. The only way you could do that is if Jesus were walking the earth now and hey was within an earshot of you and you basically said that he wasn’t who he was or like the Pharisees, you said that He gets his power from Satan

Yes you can be forgiven for being gay. Not only can you can be forgiven, you can be made straight. An example? Ever heard of gospel singer Donnie McClurkin? Well, he used to be gay. He said he struggled with it for 20 years while being in the church and then one day he prayed for it to be taken from him. And there was a lady at my church who said something similar one time a few years ago. The devil is a liar. If you’re feeling dirty, that’s a sign..give your life to Christ and pray for him to make you the way that He intended you to be!

Answer #70

yes god is real I am a christain but the only way god can forgive you is if you repent. You have to stop, and live for god, because he gave his son so he could die for you, why can’t you give back

Answer #71

Yes my friend, God can forgive any sin, even sexual sins.

Matthew 12:31 says “every sin & blasphemy will be forgiven people.”

But forgiveness of sin is only found in us believing in the Person & Work of Jesus Christ, the God-Man.

“And there is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given among men by which we must be saved.” Acts 4:12

And the bible says that we’re all sinners, regardless of the particular sin- “all have sinned & fallen short of the glory of God,” (Romans 3:23). That means that not one person ever could “earn” their way into heaven. But God has made a way through Jesus Christ His Son!

Our sin marrs our very souls, damns us to hell apart from Christ, & robs us of a higher quality of life here on earth. That quality of life is restored in Christ. “I have come that they may have life, & have it to the full.” John 10:10.

I’ve committed just about every sin in the book. I’ve done many good deeds too, but God is perfect. I have still fallen short of perfection. My only shot at heaven after death & the highest quality of life down here is through me claiming Jesus’ righteousness for my own, & me following after Him. He is so kind. He doesn’t have to, but out of love He offers the gift of eternal life to us sinners through belief in Him.

We should believe & repent. Repent means turning from sin and toward God. This is hard! If it was easy everyone would do it. I struggle mightily with sin, & sometimes slip back into it. But I don’t ever want to stop fighting it.

You feel dirty because you know your homosexual behavior is wrong, just like I feel awful when I sin. That sense of guilt means God hasn’t “given u over to your sin.” (Romans 1:24-32).

Guilt may feel bad but it’s a good thing! God has better things in store for you that a homosexual lifestyle. HE CAN DELIVER YOU, & GIVE YOU A NEW SPIRITUAL NATURE!

The truth isn’t popular these days, but it’s still only found in Jesus.

And people who don’t know Jesus think Jesus is “religion”. Religion? Nope. Religious people killed Jesus. Jesus is truth, love, mercy, is currently invisible (in heaven), is living, sees all you do, & is a Person you can have a relationship with.

Sending prayers & love in Christ your way.

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