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Why don't my family ever tell me anything important?

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It started in year 5, my dad was going to war and all of my family knew straight away but I didn't know till a couple of months before, I asked why they didn't tell me they said because they knew I would take it the worst out of me and my brothers, I could understand that. But then in year 6 my great aunt died and I didn't know till my mum got back from the funeral when I asked her why she wasn't wearing her uniform. Then I found out my brother was moving out and I only found out because I heard my dad talk about it with my mum. They never really tell me, I suppose because it would hurt my feelings. But it hurts my feelings more when I find out they didn't tell me... Why don't they tell me straight away or wait for me to find out myself?