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Why cant I relax?

Ok for some reason I just can not relax!!!when im with my boyfriend and well you know we get close he asked me if he could finger me but I told him that I was scared cause I have never been finger before and so he asked me if I have never fingered my self and the truth I have never even tried it… So yeah he told me just to relax and it was going to be ok he was going to be gentle but I was too paranoid that I told him that we should try it another time when I was ready..for some reason im just scared I think is going to hurt I don’t know what should I do??

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Answer #1

I was the same way when I was with my boyfriend, I was super scared that it might hurt because I’ve never fingerd either but I had him go in really really slow, but to me it doesn’t hurt, it just feels a lil weird at first when he first sticks it in, but you get over it after a while

Answer #2

it will hurt at first but then it will start to feel really good and if you begin to bleed dont panic your hymen may have just poped and that just means your not a virgin any more you wont die and its suppose to hurt ( both fingering and hymen breaking) and if your really scared just have him put on some lubercate it wont hurt as much but it will feel good after a while

Answer #3

it doesnt hurt. i promise. just try to relax. its been done to me. doesnt hurt

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