I keep geting cold chills like some 1 is hold a cold fan at my face and hands but only at my right side wht does it mean I I keep thinking I am being watched when my little boy goes to bed ?
Sarahlouise at the end of the day, you are the one who decides what is right and what is wrong. If after you have suss up all the 'facts' and you still think your house is haunted then by all means move... Mind you, it would be horrible for your family to continue moving from one house to another if every place you reside in gives you the creeps.
As much as I do not believe in ghosts and spooky stuff, I find if I'm home alone I do get scared at night. Maybe it's all the scary movies and stories one read about that gives us vivid imaginations. My dad always tells me, one shouldn't be scared of ghosts and the supernatural as human beings do more harm then 'things' that goes bump in the night. ;)
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Well, if you do not want to move, follow some of mikeh's suggestions, investigate every sound etc, find explanations for these...Saying you think your house is haunted, you're scared and don't want to move is bloody annoying...Be pro-active rather then inactive. Get to the bottom of your uneasiness and stop making excuses...Get some friends together and organise a Friday or Saturday night ghost hunting party at your house. They can help you brainstorms ideas on how and where the sounds and movements are coming from etc.
People generally jump to supernatural conclusions when they can't figure out what's really going on. This is how a lot of religions start, too (''The sun keeps going up and down. I don't know how it does that. Must be a god'').
This is not specific to your case, but in dozen of examples, people will be convinced their house is haunted because the entire family is hearing moaning, footsteps, feeling hands on them, hearing voices, and no one else is in the house. ''If we're all experiencing it, it MUST be a haunting!'' they say. Turns out in these examples, they're all being poisoned by carbon monoxide leaks, which often causes hallucinations.
I've no idea what's causing your chills, but to jump directly to ''My house is haunted'' is akin to saying ''I just want to jump to the easiest explanation without gathering more evidence.''
no but the most weirdest thing happened last night my boyfriend came up to stay and we were watching a program balls of steal and he keeped thinking he saw something out the corner of his eye and I have never told him about it and this morning whn he left for work its as if the floor boards were creaking as if you were walking on them in started shouting please if there any 1 there please I am happy that you are here but could you please stop scaring me and as I sad this I felt all sick and emoticinal I know that sounds stupid but I want it all to stop and about an hour ago my little boy left his bob the builder on the floor and it started swaying side to side and I said conner go get your bob the builder and as I said that it stop it really freaking me out but I don't want to move
It's wierd my girlfriend sed she felt something similar in her old house but everytime I went there I didn't notice or feel anything. Apparently an old lady died in there house but they felt she was looking out for them so they weren't afraid of anything. I think mikehs comment bout you being a competent mother was abit out of line because if you want to move because your scared for the sake of you and your child I wud argue your probably doing the right thing. But as far as I'm aware if your part of the church a priest wud bless your house for free or just a small charge and I don't think its going to anger anything if there's something in your house that just comes from scary films other wise they wudnt b scary
If you're so concerned about imaginary spirits and harmful ghosts that you're considering moving, I question your ability to be a competent mother.
Again, perhaps you should be considering other explanations for your experiences before jumping to the conclusion that you should be terrified of ghosts. Your line of reasoning is the same one that got 150 people burned as witches in the 15th Century. I'd like to think that our ability to reason things out with logic and objectivity instead of knee-jerk hysteria has progressed somewhat in the intervening 300 years, but God knows I could be wrong.
but people might think am going crazy lol but I asked my neibour if any 1 had died in the house and she said if I can remember an old lady stayed there and she passed away in her sleep but I want wht ever it is to leave me alone I am intrested in all that but I don't want to be scared to stay in my own house but it will cost a couple ov hundred pounds to get a spirlest in and if their is any thing it might anger it and I don't know how much it will cost to get a prest in
yes but c the thing is it mostly happens whn my little boy is in bed asleep and whn I am alone but I don't want to think my mind is playng tricks on me because what if it isnt I am to scared to set up a video at night time just incase their is a ghost because if their is and if I c sumthing or hear sumthing on it I jnw I wont be able to stay in the house but if their is then I would like it to not harm me in any way or do any thing to scare me
well if you are really scared about it then you should get someone to come look. like those ghost hunters or someting. but at first I think you should try just keeping your mind clear when he goes to sleep. cause sometmes when people are home alone or something they think they hhear noises when they really dont. like footsteps or things like that. but if you still do after that, then I think you should call someone just to be sure.
WOW JUST BELIVE IN GOD HE LOVES you AND WILL KILL THOUS DEMONDS!!!
dont move, I suggest you wait it out. or set up a video
but thts the thing I do not want to move
like wht explanations eh