What's Some Advise On Getting Fingered For The First Time?

your situation is just like my friend a a year or 2 ago… she was dating a guy just a year above us in school… she didnt want anyone to know, cus we don’t realy like him. and then a few months later she told me, and then told me they had done a lot of stuff, all of which were his ideas, the ended up meeting up during lunch to makeout and when she finally felt comfortable telling me he had fingered her, she was upset.. and now from about a year of being apart she regrets everything.

what I’m saying is it has to be a 50/50 choice on BOTH of your parts that you want to do it, plus… 2 weeks isn’t anything in a relationship, you HAVE to have connected with him. don’t do what my close friend did, and regret everything. good luck =)

okay first of all..take it slow and easy. your 13 for crying out loud. you want mature answers, here goes. 2 weeks ? youve been with this boy 2 weeks and your thinking of this already. I dont know about you or other people but to me this is kind of big. exactly, because its a first time thing you have to really consider it. I mean you cant ever take it back.so think it thru;; is it really what you wannt? thast how youll know whether your ready or not.I dont think theres like a certain age where it sjust like oh yeah your ready to do this and that.no its about being responsible and being sure of what your doing.another thing, he shouldnt pressure you.and you shouldnt b okay with it.thast not right.so I say it once more, think it thru.

hope I helped(:

That really doesnt even matter because you fingering yourself isnt like someone else doing it. Your touch doesnt seem like much compared to someone else doing it. Someone else doing it is honestly way better. As far as being thirteen.. Im not here to judge, but if hes pressuring you into anything at that age.. Id go for someone a little more reserved.

You’ve been going out for two weeks, take it slow, and dont do it, I dont think you are ready and you will regret it (: Hope this helps x

just try to do it more harder,and maybe your the kind of girl who hasnt hymen,but try more