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okay so I've been going out with this guy for a while and I really want himi to finger me. we have talked about it a lot and I think im ready and so is he. I just want to know a few things. Will it hurt if im a virgin? how do I lay? what do I do while hes doing it? is it bad to moan? and how do I shave? do I shave it all or just some? I don't know! help me pleasee!
I trust this guy with my life and I know he'll be gentle so I know im ready so please dont give me any answers saying im not ready..
im gonna be honest with you honey..it does hurt. it dosent hurt no where near a penis but it will hurt. esspecilly if you have never or hardly ever madterbate. but if you get figered for awile your vagina gets used to it and it wont hurt as much when the reall thing happens. you can lay wht ever is most confortable. I prefer laying on my side as close to the boy as possible holding onto him with your avalable arm it is not bad to moan! that will show him he is doing it right and will continue soing it. if it doesnt make you moan then he isent doing it right or he just isent in a spot thats good for you. talk to him and tell him wht you think you would like or what hurts you. you probably need to shave. the boy mught get turned off if he goes down there and its hairy. so shaving is good. to make it soft shave in the shower down wards first then sloly side to side then from bottom up it makes it pretty soft and boys really like it. and you dont have to shave it all off wht ever you like. I hope this helps you..because I had to learn all this on my own.
K every guy is different but I think most guys like it when you moan, so don't worry about that honey. and if you think hes being to ruff, tell him to slow down, it cant possible hurt his feelings that much, and I was fingered as the virgin and it depends on how he fingers u. sometimes guys get it at the wrong angle and it hurts , just find the right way for u, trust me youll know. and I did it in the back of a car so a lay kind of diagonal but if your on a bed lay on your back with your legs kinda up. when hes doing it, you can lean your head back, look him in the eye or close your eyes, whatever you feel is comfortable. then when you shave, not to much and but not a big hairy bush lol, hope this helps!!!
getting fingered doesn't hurt if the guy knows what he's doing.
I'm a virgin but when one guy fingered me it felt good, but when another guy did it it hurt so bad I had to pull it out.
I shave. and most guys prefer you do, but that's your choice.
also, do it whatever position is comfy for you.
it's okay to mown theres nothing wroung with it and you can shave like all of it or just some of it but it would be better just to shave all of it because it would look a lil weired just to have some of it shaved and it will hurt a lil not really though but ever thing should be okay
well it should not hurt unless he is rough but I dont know cause ima guy but no it is good to moan. while he is fingering you you could kiss him or rub on him yes shaving is good you dont have to shave it all but as close as you can makes it better. hope it helps good luck :)
well im not a virgin but when I first got fingered it felt so hurt and I moan and if it hurt you tell him to slow down or try a different way and look at him or try to think of something that makes you happy
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