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What is the best thing to do lost of ideas?

Hi am having a situaton since last year… Me and my mom had an argument … It was not entirely any of us fault… It reach a point where I had to move out and live with an aunt now…and ever since then I have been tryn to talk to her but she said that she will never talk to me again things cant go back the way they were… I am now wondering if I should juss leave her alone are try again… I even went to her house and she did not let me in…

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Would you mind telling us what the argument was about? You don’t have to go into great detail, but it will help people answer your question better.

From what you have told us, Your mom is still cooling off. You should give her some time, and ask your Aunty what she thinks would be the best way to handle things as she knows your mom. When time has passed, you could invite her out to lunch. Somewhere neither of you have been before so you are both on the same grounds. Don’t invite her to your house, or she will feel uncomfortable in ‘your territory’. Also if you are in public, there is less chance of a fight. You could offer to talk about things, and listen to each other’s point of view. Have a rule that you can’t cut somebody off while talking so that no arguments or ‘he said she said’ situations arise. Make sure you show her respect, that way she will respect you too.

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