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What is the best for the baby???

My girlfriend is pegnant and we are only 16.. She is 2months and 2wks gone and we both want to keep ower baby.. Her perants are being surportive. But..mine are being very horrible every thing they say is negative e.g you cant cope, to young, cant aford one… I one of those people who want to make every1 happy, please someone help me!!!

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Answer #1

People make mistakes; unfortunately you can’t take this one back. There is NO reason you should have to have an abortion or give up the baby for adoption. You got her pregnant, okay now the hardest part at this moment will be telling your parents, there going to be disappointed and mad but wouldn’t you be too? Give them time to react to the news and show that you are willing to put in every part of you to keep the baby. Don’t believe idiots that say that your life is ruined because its not…you have just as much of an opportunity to go on in life and make something of yourself, yes its going to be 2x harder than everyone else but truth be told, your not alone. People here make it seem like this was only your fault. Yes I believe you should be completely independent but sometimes you need help and your doing something most teenagers wont do which is ask for help. Ask a parent or relative to help you with the baby while yall are at school, ONLY for school, sadly your free life is long gone. Make sure you give them maybe 10dollars and always say thank you and make sure they know you appreciate what there doing. Get a part time job and make sure you don’t spend any of that money on any else but you your girlfriend and the baby. No matter what anyone says you CAN do this and be SUCCESSFUL!! Believe in yourself, and stay 100% focus.

Answer #2

trust me, stay with your girlfriend and the baby. she’s gonna need all the support and help she can get. eventually your parents will see your serious about this and support you.

Answer #3

You Need To Stay Supportive To Your Girlfriend. Really Yall Should Have Been Responsible And Thought About It First… But It’s Too Late Now. I Think Right Now You Need To Ignore Your Parents. Yes They Are Your Parents But Once They See The Baby And Become Grandparents Everything Will Change. I Think There Just Nervous Your Having A Child Which Comes With a lot Of Responabilty. Maybe They Think Your Not Ready Since Your So Young. You Need To Think About Getting A Job If You Don’t Have One And Getting A Income So You Can Keep everything And Be A Good Daddy and Boyfreind. Also I Think You Need To Think About Marrage. Yall Made The Choice To Become Parents So You Can Walk Away From your Baby or Wife.

I Hope I Helped Good Luck!

~Shay

Answer #4

Uhm well exactly what part of what they say is untrue? You are too young, you cannot afford a baby, and quite frankly you’re probably not mature enough to be taking care of one. It’s not horrible, it’s reality.

What exactly is your question? Whether your parents think you are too young or not, it isnt in their hands…

Answer #5

im 15 and 12 months ago I gave birth to my daughter my parents were not suportive but my boyfriends parents were and we are doing fine im living with my boyfriends parents and him and my parents are coming around and will aventualy want to get involved I hope this has helped just ask me anything to do with relastionships being pregant will be happy o help xxx

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