Hello, I'm 14 and pregnant. I understand the mistake I made, but i would never kill a child. I will do everything i can to raise him. Im 25 weeks, but i have a problem. My Dad's soon to be wife is crazy. She's completely turned my dad against my boyfriend and I. My dad has only been with her about 6 month. I have already told her multiple times she's not getting my baby. She thinks my Dad will force me, for one legally they can't and two I'm very stubborn. She even told my close aunt that when i got my sonogram done last week she loved seeing her baby. She is consently going through my phone and lying to my dad saying I'm saying stuff that I'm not. Her whole family is rude it to me about . There's no way she'll get my child, But she's extremely controling over everyone. I'm affaid that if she doesn't leave my dad once she realizes she's not getting the baby that she'll be demanding with my baby. or even mean to him, I know she'll try telling me what i can and cant do with him. she already tells my Dad im not aloud to go to families houses. My main question is how hard would it be for me to move into my aunts house. She has a spare room for the baby and I, which i dont have at my house now i share with my younger sibling. They've offered to help me with whatever i need. also babysit while im at school. I do not want my dads wife babysitting because she'd probably be mean to my son. I'm trying to do whats best for him, moving in with my aunt if she stays is mostlikely best. How hard and what would i have to do to do so?
Wow, that's a very crazy and scary situation. Have you tried confronting your dad one on one without his girlfriend around about her crazy tendencies?? What she's doing seems very dangerous because she's already trying to take control over your baby. I'm sure that when the baby is born, she will want to take care of it mostly and use your age as a justification for doing so. You could even try confronting her one on one and saying that this is YOUR baby, this is not HER baby. I just don't understand how someone can be such a psycho! Try talking to your aunt and your dad about this WITHOUT your dad's girlfriend because this has absolutely nothing do to with her. Discuss with your dad and your aunt what's going on and try to decide what living situation will be best for the baby and let your dad know that you're worried about the baby's safety... Gosh, I hope everything works out for you :(
Unfortunately, you can't just leave ... they can have the police bring you back.
However, you also don't have to remain in an environment that is unhealthy for your child. Contact child welfare and tell them everything you just told us. Let them know that you want to stay with your aunt, effective immediately. Your stepmother's actions clearly indicate that she is unstable and your concern right now is for your baby.