What do I do? I don't know how to tell my parents I'm pregnant?

HELP! Karma is ruling my life. My friends finally convinced me that having a baby is a bad idea. (I’m 14). Well, that day after school, I saw something about the symptoms of pregnancy. Naturally I freaked, because I have all the symptoms. So today I took a pregnancy test, it was negative. My friend said “Take another one just incase, sometimes they’re false negatives”. So, I listened to her. 2nd test was positive. I freaked (again). 3 tests later, ALL positive! I have absolutly know idea what to do! I don’t know how to tell my parents, or the dad. HELP!?!?!?!?!?!?

Answer #1

oh gaaahhh not another of these kinds of questions.

I suggest, grow up and take responsibility. This is not just your life anymore, there’s another kid’s life that’s potentially gonna be ruined (either if you abort it or if you keep it and raise it by yourself, his/her life is potentially gonna be ruined because you dont have financial stability yet and arent mature enough to raise a kid). Operative word is potential ok.

To all those who want to have sex, please go get protection if you dont plan on having babies yet.

To all those KIDS who WANT a baby, DONT. Please. For the sake of the baby, dont. Not yet.


Answer #2

It isn’t that hard to use a condom. go to the drug store, gas station, grocery store or where ever and just have a condom with you it isn’t that hard. But hey its not my problem you are never going to have a good life a be succesful because you can’t go to school and then you are going to minimum wage and have a all around shitty life. Get an abortion but you are going to owe your parents some many.

Answer #3

Please don’t kill your child.

Answer #4

I agree with all of you, especially omnia. :)

Answer #5

Karma? Really? So that is what caused you to have unprotected sex. You made the CHOICE to have sex, so you have to face the consequences. The sooner you tell your parents the sooner you can decide what you want to do with the baby.

Answer #6

Karma is ruling your life? Really. It was karma that made you have unprotected sex. Wow. I know personal responsibility appears to be taking a down turn these days, but this is beyond ridiculous. If you’re going to pretend you’re an adult and responsible enough to be making adult decisions, time to grow up and stop blaming ‘karma’ for your irresponsible decisions. Seriously, your friends had to finally convince you that having a baby at 14 is selfish, irresponsible, and highly idiotic? What exactly would you like us to do? What else can you do but simply say, I’m not the smartest person on earth and I made a really stupid mistake, it’s really too bad everyone is going to have to suffer for it, but oh well. I’m a teenager and I cant think beyond my selfish wants. As for the dad, uhm well he had sex, so he should know pregnancy was an option. Hopefully he’s not over 16, or in florida or any other state that will put guys in prison and label them as sex offenders (I assume he is older than you). Now you figure out whether to have an abortion or give it up for adoption, or keep it for your parents to raise.

Answer #7

to find out if your pregnant take a pregnancy test 2-3 weeks after you had sex (any sooner and the results won’t be accurate) in the morning with your first pee is the best time and take it when your period is due alternatively, see a doctor for a blood test this will both let you find out quicker and give you more accurate results if you are pregnant you need the help of your parents to figure out what to do this is why young people need to think things through more because yesterday you seemed so ready for a baby, and now you dont want one

Answer #8

I’m sorry to say - there is no easy way to tell people about it. You just have to spill the beans. Sorry.

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