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There has been stuff that has been happening in my family, a conflict I must say, and my dad has been telling them to his friends at work, saying that I've change into this, into that, something bad... cause I had a boyfriend
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Its not even true, I had a few boyfriend's before that they dont even know about because if they did I wud be in this situation already then, but im only like this cause theyre forcing me to break up with him, and were foreigners here and im pretty much known to every1 who are the same nationality, and they all look up to me cause im the oldest 1 thats a girl they know and all the lil kids loves me and look up to me and respects me, and now their parents wont even let them see me anymore :l or even talk to me cause my dad spread things to their dad and ofcourse they'll share it to their wives... and now every1 looks at me like a dirt, my bestfriends mother wont even let her see me anymore...
What can I do to change their minds that im not as what my dad said? cause my parents cant even trust me, they trust my other friends whose asian more than their own daughter ¬.¬ and now, not only them who looks at me like a dirt but they made every1 look at me like that... I cnt even talk to these people who look up to me because I dont want them to get involve and if I do tell them why their parents suddenly stopped dem, it will make things worst, like they can say "im making them look bad to their own children" :(
any advice???
I'm the oldest kid my family noes too, kinda and I have too be a role model and whatever because im the oldest and it sucks.lol. No offense to my girlfriend or anything ...but her parents talk and tell other people things too and trust me..its sooo annoying. The thing I tell her to do is to talk to her parents and ask them what they say to other people and tell them whats true and whats not even true. It might sound kinda bad to talk to them because like they're fags to you fright mow because they talk all this crap but my girl talked to her parents abot this issue and they stopped talking about it...kinda.lol. So ya, I hoped this helped u!
same thing happen to me the girl started talkin bad stuff like my cousin was a pot head so I took the swing and jumped off and landed on her and she was going to punch me and I was so going to wet myself but I was 5 so it dont matter but I gatherd my self and punched her so hard she passed out and then I sed does someone elts was to F***ing mess with me with me but im not a bad girl she was saying bad stuff like my cousin was a pot head so what am is to do just stand there well my cousin cheerd me on then im not to go there no more so what ever you do dont punch some one to get rid of being mad
