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My mom is constantly yelling at me for stuff I do or dont do. She doesn't believe me anymore. we constantly get into fights and I always end up grounded or losing something inportant. Yes, I have lied to her in the past. But, I am doing better, or at least I thought. I was going to go to a friends house the other day atter school and she told em I couldn't gobecause she's tired of me and my brothers expecting soo much, but returning soo little. AI thought this was ridiculous, but I obeyed. I went home and cleaned like she wanted, but, I went to my friend's house after my dad picked me up and she found out and freaked even though it's not her weekend, she still tried controlling me.I am tired of my mom trying to be a total physco towards me and not letting me have a life event hough she will let my brothers who are 16 & 17 go and screw whoever they want. it erks my nerves to think that I'm not going anywhere in life because she doesn't want me to grow up. I know she thinks im going to run away and get knocked up at the age of 16 like her...but tnhats not going to happen and it hurts to think that she can't trust me enough to actually let me do some things that I want to do. I want to go live with my dad, and I would do anything to make that happen. Is there any advice out there that could get me living with my dad??
I do not have a very good answer. But my mom does a lot of things with my step sisters. Like going to a early good ice cream shop, going to the movies, they get to go out to eat when there brithday is coming up, they get to have a party, they go out to Cold Water Creek, ect... So I feel like I am a doll to her that got put up on a self and veary played with. So now I went to live with my dad but that would mean that I can not go to the same school and will not get to see my friends as much. But I have to do what I have to do. Sorry I get carry away how can you convince youe mom to let you live with your dad. I do not have muvh but I can not for get I am a 12 year old. But I havew to convince my mom so I can do it. So I think it is it that is my story.
Well maybe your mum just really wants you to do well in school and things like tat and mybe if you sit her dwn and talk to her about it maybe to stay over at your dads over nite for a week or 2 then ask your mum later on if you cn live with your dad.
You can when your 15 you can choose where you are to live, I was in the position and I then found out I can next year live with my dad
