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How to deal with my boyfriend's addictions?

is REALLY addicted to smoking; & Rolling. I mean I’ve been there & done that. I’ve smoked one time. didnt enjoy it. thought there was no point in it. I’ve popped a XTC. & yeah wont ever do it again. thought it was pointless too. but my boyfriend he gets Loritabs from some drugie at his work & he takes bout 8 at one time. I can barely stand talking to him. but I dont want to end our relationship cause I love him a lot. but im not going to make him completly stop at one time. I know how hard that cld be. but he keeps on & on. he has about OD before. & I cry every nite he does get f*ed up. & I tell him he is getting close to loosing me. but he does it behind my back still. what do I do ? :/

help asap.

ps: don’t say he don’t “love” me; or I should break up with him. he does love me. & nuthing in the world can cause me too break up with him. sorry [:

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Answer #1

If you won’t break up with him and he doesn’t love you enough not to overdo drugs to the point where he’s going to die, then you will stick with him until he dies and go to his funeral.

Why did you ask the question? Did you think we had another option?

Answer #2

Both of you need to practice some tough love and tell your boyfriends to go to rehab or you’ll leave them. you are enabling them by allowing them to hurt you with no consequences.

Answer #3

well im having the same problem with my boyfriend and all I do is talk to him everyday and tell him how much I love and he says it back and I tell him that when he does drugs and drinks he makes me sad and cry and am always afraid of losing him he tells me hes trying hes best not to do it anymore and well its working so just talk to him everyday and tell him how you feel about it.

hoped I helped!! :)

Answer #4

For once I agree with shundarr. . . I’ve been on the drug end of the relationship and Tough love is the best answer. . . You will be better of without him if he places his drugs before you. some thinks he needs to do for you to stay. . . and I mean all of them. 1 Narcotics annonamous 2 counceling 3 drug treatment those 3 go hand in hand 4 time to find new friends that don’t use drugs 5 Give you the love and respect you deserve. once again All of them not just the ones he likes. . . . .

Answer #5

hmm. don’t gotta be a dick. I was basically asking WHAT can I as in MYSELF do to HELP him [:

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