If we have sex now won't god be mad at us??
Sex, is a beautiful gift, one that God has designed, with each of us in mind.
It is the ultimate expression of our love.
It is so precious to God, that he gave guidelines, for its use and protection.
Man, continually revolts against Gods intentions, bringing much shame and heartache to himself.
Gods way is right, and it works, however, there are few that choose to follow that path.
God forgives us when we sin, once we realixe that we have in fact, sinned, and strayed from his teachings, however, he can not nor will not, erase the consequences of our sin.
That, we have to bear, on our own, even though he will help us.
Think about the unwanted children that are being brought into this world.
Think about the terrible scourage of abortion, that is rampant.
Think about the shame, one feels, after giving up a part of themselves, before its time.
Think about the dangers that are involved, in free sex, without ties that bind.
Think about the beauty of saving the most precious gift that you have to offer, for the one that God has chosen for your mate, for life.
Think about not having that to offer, to him or her.
Think about what you loose, when you give up this most precious gift.
It is yours... what you do with it, is your gift back to God.
Think long and hard... before you make this monumental decision.
Because the consequences are very far reaching, often times, for a lifetime...
Choose a good path.
"Think about the unwanted children that are being brought into this world. "
Think about how many of those are due to having no readily available contraception, thanks to pressure from organisations such as the Catholic church.
"Think about the terrible scourage of abortion, that is rampant. "
Think about the terrible scourge of the women who die in back-alley abortions every day, because a safe medical alternative wasn't available for a procedure which is their business and no-one elses.
"Think about the shame, one feels, after giving up a part of themselves, before its time.
Think about the dangers that are involved, in free sex, without ties that bind. "
Think about the self-righteousness of those who decide that they can dictate how you ought to live your life and who you can spend it with.
"Think about the beauty of saving the most precious gift that you have to offer, for the one that God has chosen for your mate, for life."
Think about the arrogance of those who have decided that their religion should dictate what you do with this "most precious gift".
*** animals do it for mainly for reproduction,
No they don't. They do it solely for the pleasure, driven by instinct. Reproduction is the result, but it isn't what drives them.
Humans are unique among all species, in that human offspring can not become self sufficient for many years after birth. This places a great burden on parents, and we're smart enough to know that unprotected sex leads to babies. Yet, we have the same instinctive desire for sex as the other animals. If there's a god out there that set things up like this, and yet expects us to have sex only for reproduction, he's a jerk.
Before you allow your life to be controlled by ancient superstitions and myths, doesn't it make sense to be sure there's truth in it?
If the only evidence you have that there's a god out there obsessing over your sex life, are the words of people who have never spoken to this god, based on the ramblings of ancient men, then does it really make sense to accept that as true?
Base you decision on whether or not to have sex on real rational reasons, and weigh the risks against the benefits. God bothering will only confuse your decision.
being sexually invlolved before marriage is dangerous. it should never be taken lightly. the dangers involve: pregnancy std's damage to the relationship and seperation from God.
God has made it clear that he designed sex for marriage. He's hurt when we put our desires for physical pleasue above his will for our lives. What's more important to you? Your own desires,your own way,
I believe that all sins get forgiven, but if you havent made the mistake yet- why do so?
If you have sex now, then you have the opportunity to repent to god. You know that premarital sex is a serious sin so, you need to ask god for forgiveness. He probably would be upset with you at first, but, that doesn't mean that he'll be mad at you forever. He knows that everyone sins. I would suggest to you to wait until you're lawfully wedded. That way, you can have sex the right way.
If we have sex now won't god be mad at us??
God doesn't get mad, especially over such trivial things...
Well, not the ''New Testament'' God, anyway. The ''Old Testament'' God would probably turn you into a pillar of salt, or some sh*t...
...you ARE talking about the Christian God, right?
Why would you ask a question that you know the answer to? ...If you know it's a sin, you can wait ...Do what is right. Sex before it's time, you will regret it... Don't put yourself in a place that you have to make a decision like that...
Well, no, because animals don't have sex, they mate. There is a vocbulary difference which shows that we feel differently about human sex - animals do it for mainly for reproduction, but humans for love, fun, companionship etc.
flossheal: The opinion of a lot of religions is that humans should have sex only for reproduction, too. It's still called sex, though.
Not to mention, dolphins and some species of ape have sex for pleasure.
What, the Christain God? Well, the only reason to have sex is to reproduce, since Mayans predict the world is comming to an end in 2012 there is no point so probably
"God has made it clear that he designed sex for marriage. "
Except animals. Animals are allowed to have all the sex they want without getting married.
Probley - but everyone sins, its all about forgiveness.
If you are not married, God will be displeased.