Rape Or Not Rape

Ok Two Lovers Are Having Sex For The Firt Time,, She Is Lying Down On The Bed && He Is Ontop And She Ask’s Him To Stop But He Carries On But She Does Not Make & Effort For Him To Stop 1.She Is Scared Of His Reaction 2.He Is Ontop Would Be Hard To Push Off She Ask’s Him A Second Time & He Does Stop .. Is That Rape ?

(In My Own Opinion It Is Rape Because She Said Stop & He Carried On) WOuld Like To No Other;s Views On This

Answer #1

It wouldnt be classified as rape. In my opinion he is a disrespectful jerk, and the girlfriend would be smart to dump him!

Answer #2

Oh By The Way ,, They Were Having Sex Then She Asked To Stop ,,

Answer #3

he didnt stop when she asked him to so yea I think its rape.

Answer #4

If they’re “lovers”, that would imply they are actually in love. If they are in love, I don’t see how you can voluntarily have sex, then say stop, and because he doesn’t immediately get off of you, it’s rape.

Answer #5

anytime a girl says stop and he doesnt yeah Id consider that rape unless she ways quite when she said it then got louder the second time so he could hear her to stop,but my opinion yeah id consider it rape.

Answer #6

I say rape!

Answer #7

Mm depends on the relationship and how adamint she was when she sid stop!! sum times I b like stop ta my boyfriend but its just playful., its more that I nt and the mood or its not gud timeing (wev sumwer to go) but if the girl actualy didnt like it and wanted to stop and leave it wud be I spose!?

Answer #8

Tough situation, if she allowed him to go so far that they are already doing it and she says stop because she really is scared and she gets afraid and he still doesn’t stop then yes it is rape…however she could be playing games if she’s teasing and letting him go that far then just saying “stop” I mean sex isn’t a game of stop and go on a girls whim…it really depends on if she is serious or not and a guy will know if she is serious obviously.

Answer #9

it is rape because she said stop. stop means no, and no means get the hell off. it doesnt matter if they go out, its her body and if shes not ready yet hes gonna have to deal and control himself

Answer #10

Tricky area. But if he did eventually stop then I don’t think it’s rape that much especially if you made barely any effort. Maybe he didn’t hear you or something.

Answer #11

“I mean sex isn’t a game of stop and go on a girls whim.” No, sex is an act of mutual consent. If anyone changes their mind, at any point, for any reason, however often – then it is no longer mutually consensual. Then it is not sex. Then it is rape.

Period. No exceptions. “it really depends on if she is serious or not and a guy will know if she is serious obviously.” No, a guy will not necessarily know if she is serious. hotboi13, I recommend you quickly change your attitude – you cannot decide that a girl telling you “no” is just joking, or acting on a “whim.”

Answer #12

It’s not tricky. If sex is not mutually consensual AT ALL TIMES, then it is rape.

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