How to control myself around my Dad who makes me mad?

my dad is good at making me mad. I just want to move out but I can’t. (too young) What can I do to not yell back at him and risck geting grounded agen?

Answer #1

hey shortie,I have read all the other advices and I think most of them are very good and can help,and I think this can also help you out… anytime your dad gets you mad, just get a glass of water and fill your mouth,try not to send it down (I mean dont swallow it) by so doing you are not going to talk nor yell back at him… that may sound a bit … but trust me,it works. I dont know if an clear. good luck.

Answer #2

Apologize and start acting responsible for your actions - ask yourself: is he acting in my best interests because he Loves me and Cares for me - just might be the case - you know many, many don’t - Be Thankful…Take care !!

Answer #3

Just tell him that you don’t appreciate him yell at you. It wll be very helpful if he talk with you instead of yelling at you. And maybe you at some time you need to really think “ why is my dad making me mad?” Try to see if smething in your life that bothers him or what? I guess from there, you might find out if it is you that you just take it the wrong way or it is really your dad? And maybe from there you know whose right whose wrong.

Answer #4

Some of us don’t know how to talk softly and are often perceived as yelling.

Try to talk with him sometime and explain that although you respect him, his yelling at you really bothers you. Maybe he can learn to tone it down a little.

Answer #5

if I were you I wouldnt speak to him because I have the same porblem with my dad and I havent spoke to him in 2 weeks and the only reason I wont talk to him is because if he yells at me and I get mad I will say some mean and disrespctful things to him so thats why I dont talk to him.

Answer #6

tell him how you feel but don’t yell it at him

Answer #7

If I tell him that he dosen’t have to yell then he thinks that I am useing an aditude and then I get grounded. I’m not saying that my dad is a bad person I’m just saying he yells at me. A LOT. Some times it is for no reason. But sometimes he is totly nice. I just dont know what to do.

Answer #8

go somewere with friends or text a friend listin to music loud enough so you block him out I don’t know stuff like that

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