My mom and dad abuse me

in 3 years I’m turning 18 I can’t stand it

ask them nicely to stop

I don’t know what to do I’m in my room now hiding so my parents don’t hit me

go with ure boyfriend

Wow that sucks.. You are pretty much screwed either way. I’m sorry to hear about your situation. I don’t know what to really tell you. You are three years away from being 18, so that is a long time to just put up with it. You are in a sticky situation, and it is a pain in the butt to escape.

If you move in with your boyfriend; your parents will probably call the police the minute they find out your gone. The police will take you in and give you back to your parents. If you tell them about the abuse the police will have you checked out and try to help you.

Their kind of help is putting you in a children s’ home or search for someone who can take care of you.

I don’t know what to really tell you. You don’t have many options.

You are still underage and your not close to 18 so you can’t stick it out.

P.S if your boyfriend is older (like 18 or older), he can get in a lot of trouble, and if they catch you with him he will have a lot of explaining to do.

I would try telling the police.. It might be hard but it’s better then getting the crap beaten out of you everyday.

heyy hunn ii goo throough the samee thiinng im 16 and im not alooweed too date eiither.my parents over reactt for EVERYTHIING && I dont know what too doo.I beenn thiinking about running away too but thats not the soloutioonn how old aree youu?? iif your under 18 you cann gett intoo BIG troublee && alsoo gett your boyyfriiendd intoo trouble iif they findd ouut whoo youu beenn stayyiing wiithh and ii doubt that you want your boyfriend too gett introublee.a few months agoo ii snuckk myy boyfriend intoo myy housee att night when myy parents were home and I got caught because his father looked at his phone bill and saww thatt he talked to me aloott soo he called my house askiing iif ii knew where he wa and I said nooo ii havent talkedd too hiim meanwhiilee he wass hiding in my closet lol (ii know that was stupid) my mom had a feelling too checkk and makkesuree shee looked in my closet and there hee wasss my mom called my dad and myy dadd andd brootherr triied too beat the shiit outta hiimm (ughh) then my mom told mee too call the coppss and ii did ii ratherr me call the copss then myy boyfriend gettiing beat uppp.ii now have an order of protectioon wiith myy boyfriend but thatt didntt matterr wee still stayyiing stroongg wiith eachhother && stiickiing toogetherr.but its hard for me too see himmm.ii thiink youu should just stayy stroong tryy too talkk too themm and see iif anythiing gets betterr.ii rann awayy lastt yearr anddd the nextt dayy shiit goott worstt.ii thiinkk youu need too talkk too someonee youu really close wiith that can helpp youu.ii hopee ii helpedd.youu not the only onee thatt goes throught shiit like thiis…ii deff dooo…goodd luuckkk

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my answer to you is prayer. know that God loves you and tell him how you feel. You dont have anyone you can look up to or somewhere else to stay? Talk to God he cares so much and he will lead and guide you.

please dont tell the ask.com people because im too younge to have an account because I have to commnt my mom hits me eeryday and I hate the weekend and im only 11 and I wanna tell my teacher but im sooo scared because my whole family would hate me im getting hot literally every day

im abused everyday and im 11 and I got beat the crap out of for trying to hold my moms hand back my dad dosent hit me though but my mom is just out of controll and I just got hit like 10 min. ago and I wanna tell my teachr but at the same time im sooo scared

Best bet would be to get out of that house and fast. You should really tell and adult, like a teacher or someone you trust. It is serious and shouldn’t be taken lightly.

Dont run away that will only make things worse when you do turn 18 you can leave and do whatever you want that is when you finish highschool. They cant stop you when you turn 18 and your done with school. Just pray about it. I know someone that is in the same situation and she moved in with me and my family until her mama agreed to treat her better. Sorry to hear about this I really am. This is very personal and all the people on here can do is say tell someone about it or dont run away.. Fun mail me asap

I agree with diva 2010 but how long is it till youre 18?? if it is a long way away…I agree with garcielove. as it aint fair for you to go through all of this… good luck… I hope you get out of this. xx

1st of all how old are you and 2nd no 1 diserves to be hit you really need to do something I wouldnt sayin going with your boyfriend is a gd idea cz I don’t no your age but you shudnt post this tpye of stuff on here cause people cd report it to the police cause there concernd 4 youu my best adivce would b to call the child help line .. it it is that bad then you wouldnt care repoertin your family maybe your better off in a care home dont sound great but atleast you can have a life??

ohh ps if you tell a teacher they will tell the police if it is as bad as your sayin .. you need to get out .. many people a yr get killed bcz of it dont b a victm of abuse the only personb who can put a stop to it is you !

I agree with biancaxo1 100%. Get help and seriously you cant run away they can put out a missing persons report out or anything and if they find you you will really be in deeper mess then you are now. Tell an older person you can really trust or just someone who will believe you. That way they may can try to get custody over you.

Why don’t you want to call the cops? Does part of you believe you deserve the abuse? You DON’T!!! You’ve done NOTHING wrong!!! Are you afraid of what they will you do to you if you call the police?

Do you have someone you can tell that you trust who can help–an adult/relative/teacher/school guidance counselor?

Don’t wait to get help. Every day the abuse continues makes it take that much longer to heal in the future. hugs

This is very serious!! You have no idea the effects this has on your health, self esteem, and your life!!! Please take it seriously and get help. Abusers try to tell you that they “own and control” you but the fact is they are trying to scare you. It’s part of the cycle of abuse.

They do NOT own you or control you and there are people that can help.

Praying for you…

Your parents won’t win you back. If you tell a teacher or someone you trust and the police come, there is no way your parents can get back at you. Abuse is a very serious problem. People will help you, no matter what your family tells you. They are just trying to scare you so that you won’t get all rebellious. It also makes them feel better to know that they can have someone on such short a leash. Tell a trusted adult ASAP. You’re in my prayers..

u need to get out of that home is what you need to do you need to call dfax on them and tell them that their hitting u. or just when the hitt you hitt them back and teach them not to hitt you again like I do but it don’t work the best thing to do is just leave and never come back and when they miss you just say well why I left is because how ya’ll been treating me and I’m not going back to ya’ll(parents) for nothing and that will tear them apart and then they’ll start thinking about what they been doing to you and maybe they’ll stop doing it but you never no they might stop and might not but if you have a myspace look me up on www.myspace.com/scorpio_blonde ok

Have you considered trying to get your family some help like with a counselor? I am a foster mom and it pains me to the core to know you are being hurt every day and that you are being basically held prisoner in your own home..

If you are afraid to go to the cops that try and geet a friend or family member to help. Maybe getting emancipated would be a good way out for you. Again I am sorry and if I were you I would make these people answer for hurting you but this is your decision. God bless you and may you find some peace and some courage to do the best thing for yourself.

dont listen to them. when your 18 and you finish school you can do whatever the heck you want, and they cant do a thing about it. go live with your boyfriend when your 18.