How do I try to get my mom to finally leave her boyfriend?

We live with this guy. Every time I go home I feel like I am in hell. He makes me cry and has no feelings about it. They break up then get back together. My mom knows how much I don’t like him. She sees how much he hurts my feelings. I can’t stand it anymore. What do I do?

Answer #1

What did your mom do before this guy came along? Was she finanically secure in making it wihout needing him, from a financial standpoint? In these economic times that is a strong factor as why two people who don’t get along still will stay together. Financially one or both need each other to make it. It’s not so much choice as it is necessities to having a roof, food, and means of having a life in cohabitating rather then choosing a personal connection of love. If it is financial, and you feel your mom’s miserable too, maybe you could talk to her about your getting a part time job and willingness to help pay your own way so you can both be happy.

Answer #2

I think you should tell her straight up how you feel about him. If she doesn’t consider your feelings and continues to see him. Ask if you can stay with a relative, maybe someone in your family can get legal rights (become your guardian) and you could just stay with them. Regardless of it’s a love or financial thing, no child should be crying, miserable/depressed having to deal with …

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Just ask your mom for a talk in private so he can’t hear. Make sure he’s not eavesdropping of course. Now, tell her all of your feelings about this guy and how you feel extremely uncomfortable with him living at your house. Make sure you say nothing offensive, and it’s in a nice tone. I hope this helps. I have no experience with parents with boyfriends/girlfriends so sorry if it doesn’t.

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It’s your mother’s choice. Unfortunately there isn’t much you can do about it. What you can do is refuse to visit the house when he is there that is if you live with your father or another relative? Alternatively ask to go live with someone else and when you visit ask you mother if you too can rather go out and do stuff alone. Hopefully she’ll get the message.

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