How to get my Mom to approve of my boyfriend?

my mom do not like my boyfriend she want me to break up with him but we love each other and she wants me to but she wants me to stop calling him and know I have to sneek on the phone and more what she I do let me know.

Answer #1

if you are younger then 18 I dont thnk you honestly know what love is I think you just like him a lot.and to ME family is my 1st prioritey .. maybe let him go for like a week and see what happends.

Answer #2

who do you love more, your mom or that boy? if its ment to be and is true love, you will wind up back together.

Answer #3

you’re 14? Listen to your mom. Mom knows best! But then again…if you guys love each other…wait, at 14 it’s probably just “puppy love”…listen to your mom. or talk to her about why she doesn’t like him, she probably has a good reason.

Answer #4

One, I think its bad to hid something from your om, because, sadly, she will most likely find out. So maybe if you tried talking to her about him, and made her see why you like him so much, and maybe it wouldn’t hurt for them to get to know each other. If you like him this much, I am sure you will find a way. also, your mom wants to you to be happy, and wants the best for you. let her know he is the best for you. good luck.

Answer #5

I would listent to your mom. Sometimes you may think that your mom is trying to ruin things for you, but she’s not. Mommy’s know best. Thats all there is to it. Sometimes they are right, sometimes wrong. Your young, don’t settle for some guy just because he tells you he loves you. Yeah, you might love each other, but is it worth hurting your family that your going to have for life, or is it worth some guy that you’ve been with for months? Come on. You and I know that answer. Your mom loves you, so just listen to her. Sometimes it has to hurt before it feels good. Let him go. Once one taxi leaves, another will pull up.

Answer #6

You should try getting approved dates with him… Maybe go some where with your mom even… if you LOVE him like you say you do than any time together should be good… and if she can keep an eye on you she will probably get use to you 2 being together and eventually let you go on dates alone… Just be careful girl dont make any dumb descisions just because you think you are in love… the rate of teen pregnancy is tooo high… trust me I know im one of the teen moms

Answer #7

Mothers want their kids to be safe and happy. Is there a reason your mom doesn’t like him? Could he pull you down in life? Bad influence? Does she think he uses you?

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