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Okay, my mom's boyfriend has been living w/ us for 3 years, and up until about 7 months ago, I thought he was pretty cool. He'd give me and my friends rides to gilman street and stuff, but then we just started to clash. About a week ago, me and my mom had gotten into a small argument over me and my friends going to a concert and she was telling me I had to be home by midnight when the concert was supposed to last until 1 in the morning. This was like, my fave band in my area, so I wanted to stay for the whole thing. Anyway, he came bursting into my room, started yelling at me and grabbed me by my neck and shoved me up against my wall and called me a mother-f**ker about 15 times. Now, my mom stood there the whole damn time and didn't do a thing!!! I ended up going to the concert in tears and told my best friend the whole thing, she told her mom when her mom came to pick us up, and her mom says if it happens again that I can tell her and she'd call the police. I've been staying at my best-friends house nearly every day after-school since and my mom's boyfriend has been leaving nasty voicemails on my cell phone. I don't want the police to get involved, I just want him gone!!! Any ideas?
like ichibanarky said... it doesn't sound like he's going to be going anywhere... all you can do is get away from him... you can't let him get away with abusing you... he could abuse your mom too... ever think of that?... I think you should go to the police... get away from him... save yourself and anyone else he could hurt...
That is horrible. It's called child abuse. Both him and your mom. You could have called the police on him. My mom has a boyfriend I hate so I know how you feel. The next time he does something to you, call the police. That was totally uncalled for. It was totally unfair...you didn't do anything to him or your mom!
You can't get rid of him - if your mother wants him there, there isn't a damn thing you can do.
However, if he's abusing you, then call the police or child welfare...you may not be able to make him leave, but you don't have to put up with being abused...there are options.
Tell your mom that you don't like him. Tell him he's got to go and he's got 30 days notice.In 30 days if hes not gone throw ALL of is thing out the door w/ your mom's help but not when hes home.Then lock the door and if he has a key change the door and window lock.
do not do what loveandchaos said. that's ridiculous. talk to your mom, if she doesnt listen talk to another family member and tell them what's going on. you do not have to put up with this.
Plzz dont leason to loveandchaos that is the most ridiculous thing you can do Just talk to mom or if your mom dont want to talk go to the police if he is puting his hands on you
okay girl drug him like my sister does me and punch him outor tell your mom it me or him if she says him cures her out im always her fr dr.kraken
just tell your mom how you feel she might understand if that doesent work just go somewhere elsemy moms boyfriend is a pain too!
I really need a plan to get rid of my moms boyfriend and his kid
what did loveandchaos say?
