"We're never so vulnerable than when we trust someone- but paradoxically, if we cannot trust neither can we find love or joy." -Walter Anderson
Trusting too easily is just as bad as never trusting anyone. Peolpe are going to disapoint you because there're human, but let there be enough freedom in your relationship to let that be ok. When it gets out of hand, find people who will treasure your heart enough to do there best to not betray you.
You have no momopoly on betrayal...It isn't a matter of "learning to trust", as if trust is an all or nothing thing. Betrayal teaches us descretion...learning when, who, and what to trust...fast and easy trust is for children. My mom used to say "Don't put both feet on the rug till you know it's nailed down"...which means...trusting in a limited way is fine, but until you are sure of someone, reserve you trust.
I completely understand you. It is very difficult to trust anyone either after betrayal. I once used the services of private investigators . Who opened my eyes to what's going on ... It's good that there are such detective companies that help people ...
You have to remember that you can't punish the world for the actions of one (or five, even). You can trust someone while keeping your eyes open. Trust doesn't have to make you blind.
just make sure you don't get as close with them as before. iv been there and its happened..if they can't get they're act together obviously they're not mature enough to do that
it is up to you. Listen to your heart. Trust is very hard to gain now a-days. You will get a good and bad vibe of certain people.