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Is it natural to have cold feet before you get married?

My son’s father and I have been together for five looong years. we have seen the good the bad and the ugly that a relationship have to offer. We will be getting marries in less than 60 days and as we get closer every time we have an arguement I wonder if we should be getting married. Is this common?

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Answer #1

The overriding factor is you’re doing the right thing - making a commitment to your life-mate before God - if you look at it this way, proceed - all have occaisional disagreements - just don’t go to bed mad…I wish you two every happiness !!

Answer #2

yes it is just tell him ur scared and he might feel the same way and u should ask him to postpone it till your ready. tell me how it goes

Answer #3

Hey, my wedding is 5 months away and I’m already looking up divorce lawyers… kidding!

For you to have doubts whenever you argue now is normal- you’re about to make a huuuge commitment- legally, emotionally, spiritually. It’s normal to feel uneasy about it, even start questioning whether you wanna go through with things. So long as you have the tools to communicate with each other, and the willingness to work out your problems, you’ll be fine. At the end of the day, if you can honestly say you love each other, and it’s a healthy relationship where you respect one another, you’ll make it work.

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