Funadvice Logo
Explore Join
More Parents & Family Questions

How I can persuade my parents to be not get married to me now?

I am 26 now,but I don’t think to get married so early because of I have nothing but have a struggle heart.but my parent let me have to get married in the next year otherwise don’t allow me go home.Now I have no girlfriend I don’t want to find,I am just work hardly I want to have a samll company to belong myself.

Become an Expert →
Answer #1

“well… really they can’t make you, your 26 and you are way an adult so you get to make your ownchoices.

Talk to your perents and let them now that you would like to make your own disitions and do what you want, not what they want.

GOOD LUCK”

No offence haloyeah but I don’t think you understand the way society works in China. There is HUGE pressure from parents for people in most Asian societies to get married, have kids etc. and if not, they are often considered unfilial.

charlie88992, I think it’s best if you explain to your parents that you need a stable career to support a family, really. I think most Chinese parents would agree with that. Try to put forth your argument in a way that takes into account what your parents would be worried about, then work a compromise. If you need a Chinese translation: 我认为应该试试向长辈解释下工作和事业对维持家庭的重要。身为华人，我认为这是 大多亚洲父母非常关注的一点。基本上，认为应该想想长辈关注的事，并且从他们 的角度试试解决问题

Answer #2

well… really they can’t make you, your 26 and you are way an adult so you get to make your ownchoices.

Talk to your perents and let them now that you would like to make your own disitions and do what you want, not what they want.

GOOD LUCK:)

More Like This
Advisor

Parents & Family

Parenting, Marriage, Childcare

Ask an advisor one-on-one!
Advisor

Answers for Parents

Parenting, Family, Education

Advisor

Mummy Matters: Parenting and ...

Parenting, Lifestyle

Advisor

Visa Plan Lawyers

Immigration Law, Family Law, Legal Services

Advisor

Bestlist

Parenting, Childcare, Baby Products