How can I increase the chances of orgasming during sexual intercourse?

As with many other physical activities, training and exercise will help. I would recommend regular masturbation (either alone or with a partner), and also the regular use of “Kegel exercises” which improve the condition of the pelvic floor muscles that control the flow or urine, and are known to significantly affect the ability to climax.

Prior to intercourse, you should attempt to get all the peripheral “romantic conditions” just right for you (don’t worry too much about the conditions being just right for the male partner as well - it is typically not so much of an issue with men). This may include such things as a comfortable tidy and warm bed; optimal lighting; adequate privacy; romantic music; delicate aromas and so forth - everything should be just right.

Prior to penetration, there should be adequate foreplay that brings you to the point where you are experiencing an almost desperate need to feel something filling your vagina. You may find it easier to achieve orgasm by taking up a position on top of your partner, (either standard “missionary position” or by using a “riding” technique) thus reducing his ability to move his pelvis quite so freely (and delaying his orgasm) whilst increasing your ability to control the pelvic thrusting thus build up the sexual tension in accordance with the rhythmic tempo and intensity that you have found to be most successful in achieving orgasm during masturbation.

It is unlikely that you will achieve orgasm by vaginal penetration alone., and the upper position will also make it easier for you (or your partner) to maintain adequate stimulation of the clitoris which most women find to be the most critical requirement in achieving a truly mind-blowing orgasm.

Finally, fantasizing whilst masturbating - using a range of very detailed visualizations of the whole scenario of preparation, foreplay, positions during penetration and subsequent technique(s) will ensure that you are mentally well rehearsed for the actual occasion of full orgasmic sex with your partner.

– Good luck and have fun - Majikthise.