How can fix these sexual problems, sexual orgasm and anal pleasure?

Hiya guys and girls.

I’m not one of the young kids on here asking silly questions etc I’m 18 and in a serious relationship, I have a couple of dilemmas I would like to get a few opinions on.

My girlfriend has just gone to England for a months holiday, so last night we had a little fun. We tried everything, 2 of what we did was new to me.

We had anal sex for the first time, which was O.K. It hurt her a lot, but was a but of fun for the both of us, something new. I was wondering if there is anything I can do to make it feel “good” for her when we do it again, she told me she would like to.

I also was wondering one other thing. She cant orgasm during intercourse, well so she says. Its never happened between us, and she has had 2 other sexual partners before me, and it never happened then. I give her orgasms through oral pleasure twice a week (if it works..), which to be honest I’m not really a fan of. Has anyone get any tips on how I might be able to change her to be able to orgasm during sex?? Is there any techniques that have worked in the past that I could try?

Thanks for reading, hope you can help. Please no stupid answers, I’m really not keen on being mocked or anything.