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Ignorant people 'trying' to help?

Often when people try to cheer me up they just look ignorant. Like when I told my mum about how I had a fight with some people in school and they called me names she said “Well don’t listen and be happy.”. slow clap. Yes, because that fixes everything. Now that you’ve told me that, I’ll definitely be happy and not care about being completely alone. Yes, thank you. Or when I was sad once because I was going through a family crisis and someone said “Try not to be sad.”. slow fcking clap*. It fixes everything; now I won’t be sad any more because you’ve told me not to be. I know these types of people try to be helpful but they just turn out to be ignorant. Anyone else had something similar happen to them?

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Answer #1

You can’t expect everyone to know what to do when you’re upset.

Answer #2

i feel like all there doing is trying to make you feel better sometimes when people are upset the other dosent know what to do or say that happens to me i try to give more advice but sometimes its hard to comfort someone or i dont know exactly what to say.. but i feel you cant be upset just cause of what they say cause they are trying and they do care

Answer #3

I’m not talking about the regular ‘upset’. I’m more on the lines of ‘depressed’; but, yeah, I more or less get what you mean.

Answer #4

I’m not talking about the regular ‘upset’. I’m more on the lines of ‘depressed’; but, yeah, I more or less get what you mean.

Answer #5

Sorry, double response. My pc is playing up.

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